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I'm sorry to hear of what you are going through. Maybe he left because he has to sort stuff out for himself. As you said he had no one and nothing. I don't understand why you had to keep mentioning that in your post, maybe its something that you displayed in your relationship (the way you feel about him, being a no body). Maybe he didn't want you to give him everything.. it sounds like maybe he is just trying to figure things out for himself. But anyway, I do hope you can bounce back. You have to be strong for yourself. Good luck.

how many people have you a)made out with b)had sex with within the past 5 years? Are you single or attached? Are you in an open relationship, if you are attached? Just curious, trying to see what results I get, about something I've been inquiring about, but is too long to share the whole story, so anyway please share your responses!

I went to a Halloween party last month, were I met a guy who I really liked. We kissed, and he was touching me in very romantic ways, and we spent the night together just talking, dancing, and kissing. Well, it did not work out between us, but I heard from friends, that he did not feel anything, and that it was all in the heat of the moment. Is it possible to make out with someone you feel absolutely NOTHING for? I dont think so. for me, I was attracted to his looks, and his personality. Why would anyone kiss or be with someone who they are not attracted to, or do not find attractive in anyway, looks or otherwise?

Hey Guys, I'm curious about what men do on weekends when they get together, or even on their own. Generally, guys between the ages of 20 and 25. I'm dating a guy, and when he's not with me, I get nervous about what he could be doing and with who. So thought I'd see what kind of replies I'd get.

thanks everyone for your advice. I will try your suggestions. its just so hard because i have tried before. I will try anyway.

I am not dating right now. In the past i have been afraid of commitment and I have been trying to work on it. I know I have trust issues. I just dont know how to get over it. how to get close to people, and let them see the real me good and bad. The real problem is also just having guys that I am interested in and that are interested in me too.

I do understand what you are saying. and I will look at that book you mention. The thing is that I have tried to change my life, but it does not seem to work. My friends have their own life, like I said, the situation with men doesnt really work out. And with my family, there really is no solution. Which is why i want to find a mate, to share with, meet people with, and do things together with. I also do things on my own. I guess my problem is that since family is who is always there for you unconditionally, and I dont have much family around, then who or what should I look for. friends have their own things to deal with, and thats why I guess im looking for a mate.

Please help. I am in my mid 20's and this should be the time of my life. i am generally a happy person, because I try to hide the issues that im dealing with, and dont really think about it until i am home alone. the thing is that i am always alone. I have like one person i can count on in my life. I have been abandonded by my brother completely, he doesnt call, visit or write, since he moved to california. my other siblings have never been there for me. lets just say we come from a truly disfunctional family. the other thing is that the only guy i ever cared about and who i thought cared about me, turned out not to. i have some friends, but i dont feel they can really do anything for me, i dont want to constantly tell them how upset i am. what can i do. how do i go about meeting people, and trusting people, and keeping them in my life?