After a few years of standing my ground and indicating that i do not want to be in a relationship, my ex and i got back together.
I feel like i've been wasting our time. If we had gotten back together years ago, i would have saved her a lot of distress.
How long should we totally go NC with our exes? It does nto sound rational to me to ignore somebody, who was once part of your life, for the rest of your life.