FreedomMadness

Hi there, I have just read you message and it is so sad that you feel this way. Suicide is not the answer. I know that you are thinking ive heard this all before you dont understand what im feeling or going through. But there is help out there you just have to find it, instead of worrying about all the things that are going wrong, look at the things you can fix and turn them around. You can do if you really want to. There are loads of places you can go to to talk about your worries and the people there will help you through this. For the debt, dont worry about it, if you speak to these people, they will show you how to get yourself out of debt, you have several options. One of the options is by explaining you circumstances, you can reduce your debt amount you payout. There is places out there that deal with that and will do all the phone calls for you and get the companys to reduce the amount of money. For having no job, you must not worry about that either loads of people are out there with no job, go to the job centre and they will sort you out for money, if you have had a previous job then you have paid enough national insurance so you are intitled to that money from them, lots of people survive on that amount so if they can do so can you.. Have you ever tried voluntering work? you would get so much out of this by helping other people, and on many occasion you can get full employment from it. Another option you have is when your filling a application form for a job why dont you miss out a couple of qualitfications that you have, so you dont look to over qualified. Im sorry but suicide is not the answer, if you took your own life the ones that love and care for you would suffer the most, would you want them to feel that pain. I know you wouldnt. You have to try and try, there is life out there you jsut have to grab it any way you can. Go speak to a debt counsellor and visit the jobcentre and get money from them. I hope ive helped, try not to let this get to you. All the best.

Hi everyone This is my first time posting on here. Im not sure if anyone can help but i just dont know what else to do. Ive been with my husband for 9 years, married for two and have a young daughter. Our relationship has always been the same, me putting up with jealousy and insecurities from him, and always felt it was me. He constantly puts me down, and hates the fact that i have a life of my own outide the three of us. I recently started university and it has been causing us major problems. He cant handle me meeting new people, and has become a lot more cold and angry towards me if anyone contacts or i talk to them. It has gotten so bad that we dont even speak as he just starts a fight and gives him reason to do anything he can to upset me. I dont know how much i can handle of this treatment. I walk about the house in a cold atmosphere and it makes me not want to have visitors because i dont want them feeling uncomfortable as they always do I love him so much and cant bare the thought of leaving him but sometimes i feel that its my only option. I need a life of my own that i dont feel scared in and made to feel like im a nothing. Ive already spoken to him on many many occasions about how to sort this and the way i am feeling, but he always gets angry and turns it around on me saying i deserve it and that its my fault. Our last "talk" that i tried to have with it ended with "dont even look at me". That was on saturday and he hasnt spoken to me since. What can i do? Should i leave him? Or is there anything possible that i can do to make him change?