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    Actually, I wish women would be that obvious to me when they like me, but thats just my opinion. Definantly ask her out man!
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    I gave her the test... I told her if she wants to go out to call me. If she does then I'll know, if not then I doubt she'll find a nice guy like myself again anytime soon.
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    I never make sexual comments towards a woman, I think guys that do that lack class. I'm not necessarily looking for a long-term relationship, I'd just like to be able to go on dates or just meet new ladies. How often do you actually ask girls for their number? Uhm, I usually don't get that far lol. I'd like to get to know a girl a little before I decide I want her number. But I don't ever know what I should ask. It's not that I'm really shy, I'm just not very charismatic I guess you could say. I have a dog, but I don't think he's much of a chick magnet lol.
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    How is it done? What methods are best used? What I need to do and what I don't need to do. Don't get me wrong I'm not trying to be a player. I just want a little more romance in my life cause it's severly lacking right now. Everytime I go to a club I tell myself, "I'm going to leave here with a number in my pocket." But I never do. I have no problem with going up to a girl, I just don't know what to say lol. Usually I'll ask what their name is and then my mind goes blank after that. Or on the other hand if I'm talking to a girl I know, I can't ever get past the "just talking" part. I need a little guidence here, thanks
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    Well, the only other person I've seen her get this close to is her Mom.
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    I was at a club with a friend of mine...it was extremely crowded there. We didn't want to get separated so she grabbed the back of my shirt and her hand was pressed against my back. Well, we got to an area that wasn't so crowded and she started walking beside me (with her hand still on my back). Then she looked over at me and our eyes met for a couple seconds. On other occasions she would bump into me and brush her arm against mine. And I kinda got upset about something later that night and she started rubbing my back. But anyways, am I looking into this too much? Does it mean something or is she just being friendly?
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    I've been doing alot of thinking and have come to a conclusion for this. I have given her plenty of chances in the past couple months, maybe too many. She seemed well enough yesterday to give me a call, but alas, she did not. I think if she were really interested in me she wouldn't leave me hanging like that. I'd much rather give my attention to someone who appreciates it. With that being said, I'm just going to back off. If we're really meant to be together, we will be in due time. I'm still going to be her friend and care for her, but my feelings for her are already starting to evaporate. Now I feel much better after getting that out of my system, thanks for all your help.
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    Well, he could be right Alwaysneedhelp, but I dunno. So I called her today and she said she was sorry she didn't call me, she was sick/in the hospital. We talked for a few mintues, but then someone called her (call waiting) and she said she had to go. I didn't get a chance to ask her if she still wanted to hang out. And now I'm sitting here and I can't help but wonder who that other person was. ARGH! But I guess that's natural, eh? I dunno, what do you think I should do next?
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    I don't think that it's foreign for me to show affection, I'm just really shy. I care about her a great deal and if she does like me I don't want to end up hurting her. I don't know how to open up to her and I feel like it's too late. I think I'm just going to confess to her and get it off my shoulders....win or lose. Just gotta figure out a way to go about doing so. It's starting to kill me inside.
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    This has always been my weak point. I just can't seem to get past someone that I like/love. No matter what I do I can't stop thinking about her. It's driving me nuts and the pain is unbearable. I want to get on with my life more than anything. But even when I tried she showed up back into my life. I severed all contact with her for 3 months...basically turned my heart into stone. Then we hung out and it's like I fell for her all over again. She is my friend and I want to continue being her friend. She's a good person. But she just makes me feel so empty inside. I've never told her how I felt before. She confuses me so much and I just can't take it anymore. How do I go on and stop these feelings for her without having to resort to hating her?
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    I feel like I'm the only one putting any effort into this. I'd like for her to call me more often so this doesn't seem so one-sided. What could I tell her next time to get her to call me more?...without seeming all bossy lol. I get really nervous too, I'll be staring at the phone for like an hour trying to muster up some courage to dial her number. I'm pretty shy. What are some ways to show her that I like her? I've gone as far as buying dinner and other little things. But I don't want to just buy her stuff all the time, it'd seem too much like I'm trying to buy her attention. Well, I'm going to call her today, wish me luck! Thanks for your advice
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    Lifeiscash is right...dating is one big game. I think that if a girl likes a guy she should definantly call him, atleast once a week. Then after you get more comfortable maybe two or three times a week.
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    We made plans the other night to do something sometime this week (we didn't know our work schedule at the time) and she said she would call on monday to set up a day. Well, monday rolls around...no call. And it's now tuesday and still no word. Did I miss something? When I said she could call me she seemed a bit skeptical, "are you sure, you won't get annoyed if I call?" or something along those lines, can't remember exactly what she said. I told her "nah, you can call me anytime you want"...and this would be the second time I've told her that. Possibly she is just busy, she does work alot. When we're together it does feel as though we share a connection, she touches me alot and our eyes meet from time to time. She has told me before that I look good and said that I'm "muscular". However she is my friend and I don't know if she is just being friendly or what. I would like to take things further, but I don't want to ruin our friendship...it means alot to me. She's already invited me to a party that's a couple weeks away. My question is, do you think I'm being impatient? Should I call her or just wait for her to? She rarely ever calls me. The only time we really hang out is if I call her....or our families get together. I don't think she knows I like her. I'm so lost and confused. Well thanks to whoever reads my novel, any advice would be greatly appreciated
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    Maybe she's just family oriented? I say give it one more shot, what've you got to lose? If you don't you'll probably end up regreting it.
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    A little change is good, it's how we figure out who we are. As long as you're being yourself. You seem like you're a nice dude, just don't turn yourself into an arse trying to get respect, that will only get you disrespect. I think your main problem is you worry too much about what people think of you. If you worry less it'll make a huge difference, trust me. And about those "in-school" friends, why not try to hang out with them outside of school? Or hell, make new friends even. Don't worry about girls, just keep your patience and a good eye...she'll come around. And remember, stay true to yourself.
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    I hope this is the right place for this post. This girl that I like's birthday is coming up and I was wondering what would be a good gift to get her (without being too forward). A card is too cheap and flowers seem corny. Any help would be appreciated 0X
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    Alot of times it seems like she's trying to "fish" for a date with me. Like she'll mention a movie to me that she wants to see and say "we should go see it" or "we can watch it at your house". The other day she told someone that we are going to a concert together, but I was unaware that we were. I'm going to give this one more shot, the least I can say is that I made a friend. But I hope after all this that I don't end up hurting her in some way.
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    She does have my cell number. I gave it to her two months ago and told her she can call me anytime, but she never has. What's up with that, eh? She doesn't have an answering machine. I feel like I'm wasting my time with her. But I like her alot and I think she likes me as well. I just cannot decode her. It does seem like she's on a power trip. I'm going to call her in the next couple days when I get a chance. In the mean time I hope she doesn't hook up with someone else *sigh*
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    Honestly, what does it mean? Tomorrow? next week? next month? never? I've had a crush on this girl for quiet some time now, she confuses the death out of me. Last couple times I've tried to call nobody answers the phone, and I even told her a specific time when I would call. She said she wanted me to, but I dunno. So a couple days ago she touches my arm and tells me to call her again, but I still haven't. I feel like I've made a big mistake, maybe I should have called her the next day? I don't even know if she really likes me, but it seems like she does. Or maybe that's just my feelings for her interfering with the way I think. What do you think I should do? When would be a good time to call? btw, excuse my newbness and lack of ability to generalize, I hope this is the right place for this.
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