smiles21 that sounds exactly like my situation. GF gets new job, new friends at work, and starts hanging out with the new people/in the new situation... we have a rough week with stress and finals from college and then BAM! I dont love you, Im not attracted to you... Im not seeing anyone but I really like this guy. And then BAM! the very next day Dinner Date with guy and I find out she went over to his house the night she split with me and he said "I bet you ten dollars you will try to go back out" and she told him no and started putting moves on him. Apparently from a mutual friend who keeps saying "I dont know what is in her head" but then this same friend keeps telling her "Go for it..." yeah.
it gets you. And though 4 years 9months really didnt matter at all. She could just toss it away and go have 'fun in a single life... like I did in high school." yeah. Sure. Being a good person, loving, and kind doesnt get you any where. She always tells me and told me I was so loving, and kind to her but thats not what she wanted I guess....