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I met a guy thru online and started talking. We got to know eachother a lil bit more and decided why not find a time to finally meet eachother in person! So I took the chance and it was worth it, he turned out to be real cute and real nice and we click so well together also. It was only 3 weeks ago that I met him but it felt like I knew him longer than that! We both like eachother a lot and everything is going well, problem is, he is a drifter! He believes that if there is an opportunity why not go grab it. He is most likely moving to California after new years, he wants to date me but then it's up to me because he doesnt want to hurt me and he can't promise me anything. I totally respect that, and I don't know what to do coz I'm falling for him already and I just can't hang out with him like a regular friend either. People have said to me that maybe if he has found something good then he will stay. I don't want to get my hopes up but I'm pretty sure he's not staying here long. It seems to me that I should stop hanging out with him before I fall too deep. I'm so stressed, help!

Hi I just want to know if theres any ways that I could grab a guys attention like flipping my hair a certain way or smiling at him a certain way...things like that! How can I attract him? I need some guys' advices, females are welcome too! lol

I really like this guy at work, he's 5 years older than me but hes spontaneous, really nice and really cute! At work I can always catch him looking at me really quick and theres not one day he would go without saying hi and bye to me! Trouble is, I had a female worker at work to instigate to see if he would be interested, he said no coz I'm his buddy's little sister and it would be awkward! (my brother works at the same place!) My brother thinks the female worker tends to manipulate things coz he and my crush are not friends so he doesn't get why my crush would use the word "buddy" to begin with! Anyways, I've been trying to not be shy around him and just be myself! I catch him looking at me but I want to know if thats a sign he is attracted to me at least one little bit even?

Hi, I am a sophomore in college right now, my story is that I still can't get over my crush from sophomore year back in high school! It's been 4 years but I still think of him now and then. He is 2 years above me and I remember chatting with him online occasionally but that's about it! It wasn't till this year during my cousin's graduation that I finally saw him for the first time in 2 years, I know he saw me and knew who I was just coz I have this feeling. When it ended, I saw him stood there chatting with a friend and I know he was looking at me. I'm really not sure what his situation is but I have this gut feeling that maybe he expected me to go up and talk to him first....I just wish that maybe if I didn't shy away that time I could've found out maybe, just maybe I would've had a chance with him. . . what should I do? Should I go for it?

I went to a party that he invited me to and slept with his friend when I was drunk. At that time I was not thinking at all and later realized a mistake I have made and cannot go back and change it.

I want to thank all those who replied back to my concern, You guys are right I should give sometime to myself and learn how to be happy on my own first!

My ex and I been dated for 2 and half years when I decided to break up, right before the summer. I thought that it wasn't working out and we both needed the space since we fight so much. One week after that I slept with his friend after this party he invited me to, I regret the whole thing and told my ex right away. Well like I expected, my ex was hurt and angry for what I did, saying how could I do this, he thought that I love him and wanted to get back with him but instead I slept with his friend. I was hurt too, it wasn't meant to hurt him...but it happened! Much later that summer I had a summer fling with another guy...more like rebound.....although it didn't work out. The summer ended and I tried to get back with my ex, I felt that I still love and care about him even till now, I did hurt him unintentionally, we tried to be just friends and sometimes we still sleep together. until vacation when things got ugly, he felt harassed by my calls and random show ups at his apartment, he told his mother who suggested to put a restraining order on me, thats when I decided to not to bother with him ever again. I feel that he hates me for what I did but I still care about him. I have a lot of guys liking me but I still have a tough time moving on. It's been almost 5 months since I last saw and talked to him, should I try to contact him in hopes of getting back together or should I just forget it and move on with my life?