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How can I break up with my girlfriend with out breaking her heart? We have gone out once for like 2 months... GREAT TWO MONTHS we did alot just for such a lil time. Then she cheated on me ... yeah you see? We got back together 2 weeks ago because I thought i still thought of her the same. Well I don't even come close to trustin her at all I feel totaly different and my friends told me how stupid I was for going out with her and I dont want to look stupid here... what do I do?

Okay, well as we begin as usual, theres this girl. I have been friends with this girl since 7th grade and now I'm 4 weeks away from being a freashman. This girl and I are really close. I mean we walk home every day to my house and I swear I can talk to this girl for EVER. We have those never ending convo. till times out then she goes home we started off her just coming to my house when my parents were not home and sittin in my kitchen and talk about ex's crushes etc. etc. This girls beatiful I mean PERFECT. Atleast in my eyes, and I have had the biggest crush on her since now 2 years later it still hasn't died. She still looks just as beatiful as she started. It's not like how when you see a girl in the beginning and think shes oh hott then by the end of the year you really cant rate her b/c you see her every day so it gets dull. She gorgious how ever you spell it but it so describes her. Well I have told her I liked her 4 times over the past 2 years, every time i get a dont want to ruin the friendship.... I HATE THAT RESPONCE haha but since hte beginning of the year she comes over and wants to cuddle and flirts and like is a lil rough and fun and stuff and now its moved to my bed and its not what you think don't worry but I mean we can rustle for who gets to sit on what side of the bed and she has admited she liked me to before but we have like decided not to go out b4 and after and now I'm goin to a totaly different high school then her next year... and we are talkin today and I told her I stil have liked her ever since we meet adn she said she liked me also but said it would probaly be akward to go out but every time I tell her I always feel like I need to tell her I want her, no matter I know what is goin to happen and I believe it may be akward to go out. but what am I AIMING for when I always want to tell her I like her, and I always want to have her even when I have a g/f myself... and when we talk.. we look into eachothers eyes then laugh at the moment I mean I feel the bond Its somthing you don't expirence more than a couple times in your life with one person I feel like I could spend the rest of my life with this girl.. I honestly one hundred percent do and its weird like that... would goin out with heer be akward? and why do I always want to tell her I like her? and always want to get closer and always want to spend time with her and we are so close... is this love? PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS THANK YOU FOR READIN ALL THAT I DIDNT EVEN THINKK I COULD TYPE ALL THAT.. haha.. thanx for the help, Erick

hey i may be 14 but i do understand where your coming from you may not feel you know this guy well and may feel like you cant connect in a conversation but i mean if your unhappy thats one thing but if your happy being with him thats another worrying about those conversations or wantin them wont get them just go with the flow... somtimes you can just ask him maybe how hes doing and with things other than yals relationship school maybe or see what may not being goin all to perfect with him and once you find that out just talk to him about and see why it aint all so perfect sry for all the typing may be a lil confusing if you got any questions just email me maybe i can reword it for ya

Yeah, its a bummer to get a break up especially if it lasted that long. If you ask me I think you should stop the texting if you want to test this guy don't try to contact him wait a while let it set in on what he did and make him think about it trust me I'm a guy I would know having to sit and wait drives me crazy and if it lasted that long its goin to hit him hard on what he did and hes goin to realize you arnt there and want you back just some advice good luck!, erick

i agree with yal talkin i aint some pervert who just wants to have sex i just want to make her happy and not bore her thats all but i mean we see ill talk to her b4 i deside anything but yeah i was just askin how and like how would i just end up askin her this

Okay I been going out with my girl for 3 months. I really care about her I always feel that she is the one. I mean I can look into this girls eyes and say, I LOVE YOU and mean it. I mean we always love tryin new things, I mean I was the first guy she ever made out with the real thing tongue tongue yeah... well her big sister is always telling me you need to try newer things make her happy sexually. My idea oral sex. I'm not afraid to give her it how should I offer her it? what is a good plan with out literaly sayin o can I eat you out? well comment please yal. thanx for the help...