mecoptera

I have recently been driving a female friend of mine to school. As a result, we have gotten to know each other better and are constantly flirting with each other. At least I think she's been flirting with me, she always laughs at my stupid jokes and is always finding some excuse to touch me and always stares right into my eyes when she has the chance. The problem is, is that she has a boyfriend, of whom is with the army in Iraq right now and is also one of my best friends. I am afraid that if I pursue anything it would ruin my friendships with both of them, but I am tired of keeping this all bottled up inside me. I have known her for 9 years now, because she is the sister of another friend of mine. I have had a crush for her since I first met her.

He hasn't had a girlfriend in about 7-8 years, and he is always joking about being gay, but I never really thought he might actually be gay.

The other night I was at my friends house, and while using his rest-room I noticed a dildo laying on the sink. I at first thought it was all a joke and asked him about it, but he just pretended as if it were not even there. Could this mean he is gay? If it were a joke I would think he would have said something by now.

One of my best friend's sister is dating another best friend of mine. I have always considered that me and her have a somewhat brother/sister type relationship, but lately she seems to have been giving off signs that she may want to be more than friends. She is currently in a long distance relationship with her boyfriend (of who is also one of my best friends), but now when we meet with the rest of my friends she is always trying to make some sort of physical contact with me like pushing, tickling etc. and she is always smiling and laughing at every single thing I say. Now I know that all of these signs can equal that she likes me for more than friends, but she is dating one of my best friends and I am happy for them, but deep down I am starting to develop more of an attraction for her. I just need some room to get this all in the open, because everyone involved is a friend of mine, and so there is no one else that I can talk about this with. If I were to pursue anything with her I feel that I would be jeopordizing my friendship with everyone. I know the best thing to do would be not to pursue anything.

A friend of mines girl friend once called him five times while she was drunk, and he dumped her right then and there. So you may think about how the other person would react if you were to call them while drunk.

I've posted a similar situation about one of my friends that I am falling for, so basically i'll just tell you what I got out of my responses. Just keep telling yourself that she is your friend, and that she does not have the same attraction that you have for her. The best way to keep your friendship is to keep it a friendship.

If you have to wear glasses in order to see clear, then leave them on. Don't be worrying about your looks, honestly women could care less. If your still not statisfied then get a pair of contacts.

I am starting to becoming very attracted to one of my friends, but she is currently dating another friend of mine. I know that if I were to pursue anything, that it might cost me both friendships. How can I get the fact that I am attracted to her out of my mind, but still remain friends with her?