ok hey guys this is how it goes...my gf's ex bf is mad at me cuz we are datin and ya know some stuff went down between me and him we fought that old thing (only fought cuz he swung at me first). Over christmas break he went to my gf's house and said if u dont have sex wit me then imma kill your bf (which is me) and im gonna kill you.. so she did was she was told.. now do i totaly buy that? i mean should i? if thats tru she didnt cheat on me then she was raped, right? i have talked wit a couple of people and they all told me the same thing....that when they had a problem wit their gf's ex bf the ex and the girl were still messin around and i really like this girl and want it to work out but i dont know its so confusing i need help....do i leave her or what, because of her there has been a whole lot of problems wit me and this guy, i have lost friends, got stalked, got ppl wantin to fight me (dont matter bout the ppl wantin to fight me though, cuz i can take care of them) but n e way not tryin to boast, and there has been some other stuff...is this girl worth it? is a relationship this important? to cause so much pain emotionally...i mean i got alot of other girls checkin me out and i can go wit them but this girl is just amazing i dunno maybe someone can help me... thats all 4 now later