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I meant in a good way. Just got back, went to the cinema with her, went well and she did know how I felt, so all is good, guess I will talk to her more tomorrow cos she has gone to bed.
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Yes I chose to ignore some of what people said because it was plain stupid, I needed advice, but since then she has said things and stuff has happened that means I am more certain of what is going on, so I don't anymore. Simple really.....
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Was that post really necessary? I asked for advice because I didn't know what to do, but then just from talking to her more I became more sure, so I know whats happening and I don't need advice anymore. If it really annoys you that much then why do you bother replying to anything on here in the first place.
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First of all I am already friends with her, and secondly I want to get to know her better before I do anything, cos I have rushed into things like this before only to make big mistakes. In any case if nothing ever happens and we just remain friends then that is fine, I would reather we stayed friends as opposed to rushing something and making things awkward. Also if anything were to happen I would prefer it was in person rather than online, which as you said is impersonal and doesn't let you judge their true feelings.
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We are friends but we never see each other alone, its alone like with other friends. We talk online alot but thats about it. So I don't intend for it to be a date as such, more just to get to know her in person then see how things go from there.
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I haven't said anything, but we have never gone out without people anyway. I plan just to leave it how it is then see how it goes on the day and how she acts.
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She made it easy for me, online she said she wanted to go to the cinema, so I asked if she wanted to go etc etc. I will see how it goes from there...
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I have been thinking about asking someone out, but its not quite that simple cos we are really good friends and whilst I don't want to wreck that I also do want to go out with her. If it weren't for that fact that this is the first time we have both been single in a long time I think I would have done it sooner. I am pretty sure she likes me since we are always playing around together and stuff, but I am not sure what to say to her and I don't want to spoil our friendship..... .....any advice would help....
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Yeah that makes sense. But I know she likes me because she told me and she also said that she feels bad about us not being able to see each other for 7 weeks. She does feel the same way as me about it. We said we would text each other whilst we were away anyway. She said that she would like to see me but doesn't want to make things difficult for me by having to go on holiday a few days later and us not actually going out does make it seem weird that I would go to the trouble of that. So I'm not sure what to do.
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I have recently started seeing this girl, we both know we like each other and the other night at a party we kissed, we've gotten really close. But she is going on holiday for three weeks on friday and I won't see her before she goes away. To make things even worse I am going on holiday the day before she comes back for another 3 weeks. This means I won't see her for 7 weeks (including this week), I said to her that I can probably go on holiday a few days later so that I can see her before I leave but this is going to be costly and hastle with trasport. Should I just wait or try to see her before I go away?
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I can imagine myself being with her, because I think we would be good together, but I'm not sure if I want to. I'm very confused.
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My friend asked me for relationship advice today, because she said she doesn't find her boyfriend attractive any more and wants to break up but doesn't want to hurt him. But I couldn't help thinking that she wants to break up with him to be with me, I don't really know what I'm basing this on, just the way we talk I guess. We always have really deep conversations and we seem to be quite alike. How can I tell if she does want to break up with him to be with me and what can I do about it?
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I really want to get back together with my ex. We broke up a few months ago now and we never really went out for that long or went very far when we were together. I see her almost everyday at school, but I thought I was completely over her now. I saw her last night at a party, and although nothing happened and we didn't talk that much I suddenly felt that I would really like to get back together. I was thinking about her the day before the party too. When we broke up she just said it was because she viewed me more as a friend and couldn't see that we would go anywhere, which I can completely agree with now. I don't think she gave it enough time to develop. Is there anyway we can get back together? I would hope there is, but I can't see that she is interested in me.
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Yeah, I just tried phoning her now, but she didn't answer, then I remembered shes got an exam today so she will of left her phone at home. I'll phone her later. The problem is I'm busy the next few days, and I need to revise, then I have exams, so I won't really be free til the 10th of june, but I'll see what she says anyway.
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I just asked if she wanted to go see a film, I text her. She said no cos she didn't want to see the film. So I assumed that she didn't like me, and phoned her. We talked for about half an hour, and it turned out she just didn't want to see it, it had nothing to do with me. After that I thought she liked me, that was about a week ago now.
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Well I know she doesn't have a boyfriend, and I don't think it was a rumor, since it came directly from her best friend, who was trying to set us up at the time. I thought she liked me anyway from how she was acting, I still do think she likes me, I just think she is afraid or shy. I don't want something like shyness stopping anything from happening, if she genuinely doesn't like me then thats fine.
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I really need help, none of my friends have any idea what to do either. I met this girl from the girlfriend of a friend. I was told she really likes me, and that I should get to know her better, which I did. I asked her out once and she said no, with what seemed like good reason when I phoned her. She hasn't shown up at the last few parties I've gone to, perhaps because of me being there. Her friends said they think she's shy and afraid of getting a boyfriend, even though she wants one. I'd still like to go out with her, but it seems that everytime I try she backs off and I know that she's too shy to do anything about it herself. Does anyone have any idea what I should do?
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No, that is a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that.
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I don't drive yet, cos the age to drive in England is 17, actually I'm 17 tomorrow, but I need to learn and take tests etc. Anyway I totally get what you mean about losing the oppurtunity, thats happened before and it sucks. I am definelty going to ask her, but we've got exams coming up so I'm not sure if it would be right yet.
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Theres this girl I really like and I talk to her all the time at school, I really want to go out with her, and I am pretty sure she'll say yes. But how and when is it right to ask. I can't easily ask her at school cos our friends are always around and it would be kinda embarrassing. I would rather not do it by phone or msn. Oh, and how could I lead up to it, cos I can't exactly just go up to her and jump straight into it. So anyone got any ideas?
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God, I am always doing stupid things like that. Like missing a perfect opurtunity to show that I am interested or to ask someone out, then I think about it later and drive myself insane. I think maybe you would just be best of if you just really took the time to think things over, because you could live to regret not showing more interest.
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Providing no authorities find out it wouldn't matter, and to be honest I don't think it would be their biggest priority. Providing she actually feels like shes ready and isn't then going to use it against you later.
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Theres this girl I really like, I see her at school and I talk to her a lot. I've always kind of fancied her, but just recently she was flirting with me a lot. Should I get to know her better first, before asking her out, or should I just ask her out then get to know her better afterwards? I don't want to rush things, but at the same time I don't want to wait too long and risk her losing interest.
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Right, so I've known this girl for a while now, just as friends at school. But just recently shes been flirting with me so much, at least I think she has. She nudges me when I walk past her, and laughs at thing I say, which aren't all that funny, this sounds like shes flirting to me. She's always a bit flirty with people though, just recently she's been 'flirting' a lot with me. Does this sound like she actually is flirting with me and its not just me being stupid. If she is actually interested in me, then I would love to ask her out, I just need to make sure I am not seeing things wrong.
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Ok, I asked her out, but she said she wasn't ready for a relationship just now, cos she isn't over her last boyfriend and shes got exams and stuff. I thought she might say about her ex, she does seem really obsessed with him, but I thought it would still be ok. Anyway, i'll see how things go with her.