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i was in the same situation w/ my ex, 3 years ago,,, i went crazy on him too when he said that we should take a break, b/c he felt pressured and told me that it will be good for us. I even said that i know that he was gonna move onwith someone else but he got angry and said maybe i will but he won't. After that he started acting a little weird. Anyway, i told him that he could take a break as long as he wants but he didn't take a break but he met someone and broke up w/ me. Anyway, that was 3 years ago. And after that we didnt' have any contact what so ever. And last week he came back and asked for a 2nd chance, and when i asked him why he broke up with me , he told me he was immature but he changed now and wants a 2nd chance....anyway, i am seeing someone else now so i didn't go back w/ him but i miss him though.... anyway, i don't know what you are gonna take from this but life is full of surprises...

the same this happened to me 3 years ago, i was in LDR, 3.5 yrs ago, he lived in states and me in canada,, we were happy but after 6 months of relationship he decided to end it, he just gave every single possible excuses that he could come up with and broke up with me. He was always the quiet type, so even before i could ask for an explanation or talk about the situation, he made me promise not to contact him. I loved him and so i did what he had asked me to do. I was so miserable, i cried i cried and just wondered what i had done wrong or what went wrong in the relationship, after 2 years of being miserable, i accepted the fact that he's really gone and never coming back. At the time, i met a guy , me and him we became really really good friends, and he really liked me. I practically turned him down 3 times, and then the very last time he asked me out, i just thought why not give it a chance. I just made myself move on cuz i didn'tn want to be miserable anymore and i knew that he could make me happy. this october was our 1 yr, and i met his family over the summer and he just met my family 2 wks ago, every this was going perfect. I do have to admit though, my ex did come to my mind a lot I always wondered how he is , and what he is doing since he cutoff every single connection, i didn't have any way to contact him. Last week i got a surprise. I was sleeping since i had work the next morning, i got a txt msg int he middle of the night 3 inthe morning from my my , and she said she was talkign to my ex online. My ex didn't know my best friend, and he was talkin to her and for a while he thought she was me. Anyway, when i got the txt msg , i was in such a shock , i just ran to my computer logged on to msn. I started talking to him. He apologized and he wanted to sign off. I stopped him from logging off, and we started talking. He apologized for everything and he asked me for a second chance. He told me that he had thought about me too but he was too embaressed to contact me. ANyway, finally i told him that i am with someone. He said he was happy for me. we talked till 8 in the morning and then he had to go. ANyway, i tried calling him the next day spoke to him for 2 mins and he told me he'll call me later that night. He never called and i waited for him to call me. The next day after that i called him again, and he had a thanksgiving famiy gathering going on that day and he just didn't pick up any of my calls. Anway, that night i saw him online and i asked him, if he was avoiding me. And he said since i am with someone we shoudn't talk cuz that' cheating. i told him that i only want to talk to him and that's all. Since that day he never came online, or called me and i never called him either. I love the person i am with now and i think i also love my ex. My question is why did he come back after 3 years. I am really sad that i had to say no to him. He told me that if we keep on talking we are gonna have more feelings for eachother. As i said before he is always quiet. I told my bf everything cuz he knew something was wrong. I don't know what to do. I did for a long time wished that he came back to me but i also gave up a year ago. I know that we never had a real closure. I wonder if that's the reason he came back. ANyway, i hope i made sense....pls feel free to comment on my situation

when i broke up with my ex 3 years ago, i had dreams. i always dreamt that he was w/ me and my family, and then after a while i stopped dreamng about him, then after few months, i had a dream that he was holding me and looking into the mirror right into my eyes and smiling at me, then another one was few months after that we were holding hands walking around but no one else could see him but me. After that i never had dream about him uptill last month when i dreamt that he called me. ANyway, i was thinking baout him a lot lately since i moved on a year ago after waiting for him for 2 years. Last week he appeared in my life out of no where adn asked for a 2nd chance. And,sadly i couldn't give it to him. i don't know hwat this means but there must be a connection. He stopped calling me again and i am sad.

hey guys, i am new here and i don't know what everyone means by NC,, pls let me know....and the taking a break thing,, from experience when they do that, it's b/c they are really confused. And i don't believe in taking breaks. ANywa, i have a long story, Just to make it short, 3 yrs ago, my ex asked for a break, i went crazy when i heard it i told him that i know that he is gonna find someoneelse , he said he won't and then he did, he left me. Broke off all contacts. It took me 2 yrs to accept that he's gone for good. I made myself move on just 1 yr ago. And now last week, out of no where my ex came online, he told me he missed me, he still loves me and wants a 2nd chance, i told him my situation but i really miss him. ANyway, he blocked and deleted me after that night, and he never replied back to my e-mails or calls. But i do miss him though and i still do love him but i love the person that i am with now too. Well as you can see i am still shocked that it happened and really really confused....anyway guys...if you could give me some advise, i'll really appreciate it. why after 3 yrs?? i feel sad

the same this happened to me 3 years ago, i was in LDR, 3.5 yrs ago, he lived in states and me in canada,, we were happy but after 6 months of relationship he decided to end it, he just gave every single possible excuses that he could come up with and broke up with me. He was always the quiet type, so even before i could ask for an explanation or talk about the situation, he made me promise not to contact him. I loved him and so i did what he had asked me to do. I was so miserable, i cried i cried and just wondered what i had done wrong or what went wrong in the relationship, after 2 years of being miserable, i accepted the fact that he's really gone and never coming back. At the time, i met a guy , me and him we became really really good friends, and he really liked me. I practically turned him down 3 times, and then the very last time he asked me out, i just thought why not give it a chance. I just made myself move on cuz i didn'tn want to be miserable anymore and i knew that he could make me happy. this october was our 1 yr, and i met his family over the summer and he just met my family 2 wks ago, every this was going perfect. I do have to admit though, my ex did come to my mind a lot I always wondered how he is , and what he is doing since he cutoff every single connection, i didn't have any way to contact him. Last week i got a surprise. I was sleeping since i had work the next morning, i got a txt msg int he middle of the night 3 inthe morning from my my , and she said she was talkign to my ex online. My ex didn't know my best friend, and he was talkin to her and for a while he thought she was me. Anyway, when i got the txt msg , i was in such a shock , i just ran to my computer logged on to msn. I started talking to him. He apologized and he wanted to sign off. I stopped him from logging off, and we started talking. He apologized for everything and he asked me for a second chance. He told me that he had thought about me too but he was too embaressed to contact me. ANyway, finally i told him that i am with someone. He said he was happy for me. we talked till 8 in the morning and then he had to go. ANyway, i tried calling him the next day spoke to him for 2 mins and he told me he'll call me later that night. He never called and i waited for him to call me. The next day after that i called him again, and he had a thanksgiving famiy gathering going on that day and he just didn't pick up any of my calls. Anway, that night i saw him online and i asked him, if he was avoiding me. And he said since i am with someone we shoudn't talk cuz that' cheating. i told him that i only want to talk to him and that's all. Since that day he never came online, or called me and i never called him either. I love the person i am with now and i think i also love my ex. My question is why did he come back after 3 years. I am really sad that i had to say no to him. He told me that if we keep on talking we are gonna have more feelings for eachother. As i said before he is always quiet. I told my bf everything cuz he knew something was wrong. I don't know what to do. I did for a long time wished that he came back to me but i also gave up a year ago. I know that we never had a real closure. I wonder if that's the reason he came back. ANyway, i hope i made sense....pls feel free to comment on my situation