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Ok so i met this guy and he asked for my number. After a few days of waiting i thought he wasnt going to call but then he did 6 days after we met. Now if a guys interested wouldnt he have called earlier? When we talked on the phone about school and stuff he said he was taking all these AP classes and that made him really busy. I have a friend that sort of knows him and she also tells me he's a really busy person. Anyway, i asked him to call me back so i could get his number because i didnt have a pen, he asked when, i said Friday (the next day). Now its monday and he still hasnt called and im just wondering if suggesting he call me the next day was too soon, and made him think im desperate or something. Also would a guy wait so long to call u back if he really was interested?

Ok, so that you can answer my question i have to give a brief summary off another post. So i met this guy at a dance (matthew) and we were totaly hitting it off till this girl comes up to us and says to me " um this is my boyriend" she seems friendly about it and shes like "yeah but we cheat on eachother all the time." she gives him a quick peck on the lips then i talk to her for a bit then leave them alone. Later on in the night i asked the guy if they were really together and hes like " no i dont know what she was talking about, we broke up a while ago" ( though he said this he played along with her and allowed her to kiss him) so i ask him if he wants to dance again and he says "not right now im looking for my brother" (who was also at the dance). I find the girl and she tells me she was just kidding around and that they broke up in may. Now lately i found out that a guy i liked last year (justin) is really this guy (the guy from above, Matthew)'s younger brother( as in the brother he was looking for). Nothing ever happened between me and Justin. i tried calling him a few times and he stopped answering the phone so we stoped talking after a week of knowing eachother. Now guys if these two things applied to you would you still call the girl? i meen before any of this happened we were talking and dancing and really having fun and he asked for my number. its been 4 days and he hasn't called ( which im told if ok) and im wondering if he will because of the whole thing with his younger brother and how his Ex came up to us. P.S he goes to a different school than the girl and so i dont see him but i see her everyday. Also im not even sure if he knows that i liked his brother last year.

Ok so i went to a dance tonight and met this guy. After dancing for a while we go and sit down and talk and he asks for my number. I give it to him and im like ok lets go back on the dancefloor and dance and he says ok. On the way to the dance floor this girl from my school comes up to us and shes like "hey this is my boyfriend" and all this stuff but she says that they date other people and stuff. she seems pretty laid back about it and so i leave them to talk. later on in the night i see him and ask him if he really was with her and he said that she was his ex, then i ask him to dance and he's like "no im looking for someone maybe later." I talk to his ex ( the girl that goes to my school) and she was like she was just messing around and that they broke up a while ago. Now i dont know what to do i meen he didnt come and dance with me again all night. What would u guys be thinking about me it that happened because he seemed to totaly loose interest. It really sucks because we were having a really good conversation and we were really getting along. do u think he'll call or whats he probably thinking. Thanx for helping

He didnt really seem like a shy guy when i was talking to him. But at the end of the dance his friend was getting my buddys number and he was just hanging around kinda looking abit uncomfortable cos i was there waiting for her and i think he was waiting for the guy that was getting her number. Should i ask for his number at the next dance? I dont want to seem to forward or desperate u know

So i went to this dance last night and this guy came up to me to dance with me. So then he left and later on in the night i asked him to dance twice, once for a slow dance and then just a regular song. At the end of the dance he came to dance with me again. then the lights went out and her was like "AWWW man." While we were dancing i was asking him questions trying to start a conversation and he seemed pretty cool about it he was asking me back and all that. Then at the end of the dance i asked him when his next school dance was and stuff and then he said see u there and i was like alright. BUT HE DIDNT ASK FOR MY NUMBER! does this meen he doesnt like me i meen i was really nice laughing and stuff and he DID come up to me to ask if i wanted to dance, so whats up. It's so annoying cos like in my other posts ive said that guys just might look or make eye contact with me but not come and dance or talk to me u know. why is this, its driving me crazy.

Most of my life i've been told i'm unattractive and so i still believe it. Though i now keep in shape ,by playing sports, and friends and even people i've just met ( all girls) often tell me im pretty i just have ingraved in my head that i'm unattractive and ugly. As ive said in one of my other posts, while at the mall or something guys often look at me but hardly ever talk to me. The combination of these to things make me wonder if i really am attractive and stop me from approaching guys because i think they will think im ugly. i meen if guys thought i was attractive they would come and talk to me right? so why dont they why do they just look. i often get comments from guys ( and by the way guys dont do that its freaky,lol) but they dont come and talk to me. The fact that people are telling me im pretty but having no guys talk to me is really confusing me about where i really am attractive. i meen i dont think i look all that bad but if that was true guys would come and talk to me, right?

I've never really thought of myself as attractive i used to be overweight and often heard guys saying they would never date me no matter what. Well now im in high school and take good care of myself and have lost a lot of the excess weight through sports. Now i receive compliments about my looks but i just can't believe what these people are saying. I sometimes feel i look good however whenever i am out the guys that hit on me i don't find very attractive and i shrink away from those i find cute because i think to myself " stop looking this guy is probably wondering why such an ugly girl that has no chance him is even looking him over." I also dont like my friends who i think are very pretty and often date have the most gorgeous guys with them to see me looking at a guy i think is very attractive because i dont want them to think " why is she doing that she obviously doesnt have a chane." i know i seem very absorbed in looks but i do live in south cali and here looks are emphasized SOOOO much its revolting. How do i get over this lack in confidence and maybe feel confident enough to show a guy that i find attractive that im interested?

Recently i've been having guys look at me quite a bit while im out at the mall or on the bus or somthing. The think is that they hardly ever come and talk to me, we make eye contact but no conversation ever starts. Now i dont know if im just not sending out the right signals for them to come and talk to me. I'll look back at them but im too shy to smile, should i be giving these guys more of a hint to show them i'm interested? And if i should what do i need to do to show them im interested? And why wont they come and talk to me? Thanx

Hey all, I'm a sophmore in high school but im only 14 i look about 17 though and im really mature for my age cos of the stuff i've gone through in life. Anyways i wanted to know if because of my age juniors that are 17 won't want to date me while im still 14 even though i'm just a year below them, but really have 2-3 years in age difference. Thanx for reading my post, i hope u can help me out