Ladybug

My vision for the world is a place where people are free to love themselves and others unconditionally. A world where people stand together for peace, harmony and equality. A loving, connected, compassionate world where people choose from possibility and responsibility. A world where people cherish life as a gift and create health for themselves, their children and the environment. In this world, adults play like children and rejoice in the beauty of every day as a opportunity to love and give of themselves in service to other people. Dreams are not only possible but reality. Laughter and joy are abundant and peace and love are not just words we whisper in Christmas carols but a human's experience of living on earth. I am on a mission to create this life for myself and others. What would your world be like if you could create it?

If you like her the way you say you do, tell her you think she is pretty and you would like to get to know her better and ask her out yourself. Don't wait and then kick yourself in the a** later because you didn't own your courage and do it. The worst she can say is that she just wants to be friends, which would be better than what you have now which sounds like no relationship at all if you don't talk to her. Ultimately you just need to step up to the plate, get over your fear and talk to the girl. Nothing in life worth having comes without moving through your fear and taking action on what is important to you. Just talk to the girl... Peace and love, RJ

Ultimately as a human being we develop into conscious beings that worry about what other people think of us. We develop from a very early age being told by our parents and role models to behave, be good, follow the rules, dress appropriately, etc. It is human to wonder what someone else thinks. However, if you make choices in life and keep yourself from happiness due to anxiety and fear of what others will think....I imagine that you miss out of some amazing opportunities to have fun, have fulfilling relationships, and truly have a life worth living. If the fear of what others think about you keeps you from happiness, perhaps you should really analyze why you care what they think. Our fears do nothing but hold us back from our highest possibilities....Martin Luther King probably thought about what other people thought and ultimately knew that most people didn't agree with his opinions, but that didn't stop him from demanding freedom for all....and causing a transformation in this country that marked history forever. So, ask yourself where in life do you stop short because of what someone else thinks or says to you and ask yourself what is more important...what they think or what you want. Your ego and limiting conversations will be around until the day you die, but that doesn't mean that life isn't worth living and that you have to choose from that place. There is a much more powerful place to choose from, a place where you create a life worth living and you live at the potential to make your dreams come true. Sound interesting??? Have you ever really taken some action on breaking through this anxiety? Are the books helping? If not, there are other avenues to explore. I would be glad to discuss them with you, as I stand that everyone gets to have a life worth living, and everyone deserves to have what they want in life. Peace and Love, RJ

Sweetheat, It sounds like you just need someone to really talk with you. Life is worth living, but sometimes you need someone to guide you back to the path. Honey, you are 18 and have an amazing life ahead of you. You can make all of your dreams come true. email me and we will chat about all the possibilities in life, believe me--they are endless and life is totally worth LIVING to the FULLEST (just let someone help you out) I'm not some therapist, just a 25 year old woman with a heart that is breaking for you right now. Let me help... email removed