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Hey!! Ur bf might be honest with u because i also have a very observative character and usualy look at ppl wherever i am..it's probaly just that.Even though he might be admiring some women it doesn't mean he doesn't find u attractive..he obviously does Anw relax i think it's nthn and if u feel u need therapy then go ahead Good luck!!

Hey they say that once the glass is shattered it can never be fixed(sorry if this sounds strange,it's said in greek in my island).Do u think that't true?ONce a couple have parted can they never have a doubt free relationship? Also take a look at this poem"since there's no help" by Michael Drayton Now at the last gasp of love's latest breath When his pulse fading,Passion speechless lies, When faith is kneeling by his bef of death, And Innocence is closing up his eyes, Now if thou wouldst,when all have given him over,From death to life though mighst him recover yet. Tell me what u think!

thx! i appreciate the advice..i know i'm a very strong character and i probably will get over him because i'm coming to realise that i only wanted him back because i can't take rejection.I'd never been dumped before and this was a first.It's all about ego

hi well i met this guy,he was 19 and i was 15 we got on he wasn't you're average a*****e.He was sweet and he wouldn't touch me because he thought i migh feel used it was a change to meet a boy like this.He was in the army(boys go to the army when they are 18 in cyprus)and he called me every half an hour to the point where i got annoyed but when he was on leave which was two times a week we had a great time.He was so genuine that i decided to sleep with him..he was my first.It was very romantic and i cried after because i was used to such a powerful experience but he sat with me and hugged me until i felt better an even took me to this place on a hill where u could see tha sea it was beautiful.Unfortunately i always treat boys very bad teasing them and laughing when the say smthn romantic..even breaking up with them because i got fed up.It's just in my character,i used the same tactics on this boy and he would call me all the time and i wouldn't answer or he sent me msgs telling me to plz call him and that he was thinking of me and was at th beach listening to my favourite song and all that kind of stuff.Sounds sweet now but then i didn't take it seriously.I got carried away because i wanted to have fun with my friends without having to answer to him so i broke up with him but i cried and we got back together the next day.I'd never felt this way before about anyone.But i was stupid again and i broke up with him this time 4 sure and really broke his heart. Two weeks later i phoned him because i was upset about something else and he told me he was on his way to his ex-gf house for her br8day party.Suddenly i felt so jealous it was unbearable.i called him a kazanova sounds funny now. He called me later on after the party and we talked but it was too late he was allready back with his ex.I was so mad! We met in the summer and by the way he was looking at me i could tell he still had feelings for me..we ended up kissing and talking about us but the next day he changed his mind an d i could tell it was out of loyalty for his ex..this went on all the time he was in university as well,we talked but he couldn't leave his ex even though he couldn't stand to be with her anymore.Finally this winter they broke up and we spent new years together it was fantastic.A good friend of mines dad died in a car crash and because i was upset he came to be with me.We went to the beach and talked..this time we got back together and i was so happy even though the next day he was leaving for england to study.Things were going well even though i missed him terribly i couldn't wait 4 easter when he's be back.He called me from the airport tin england to tell me he was boarding and phoned me when he arrived but he never mentioned when he was coming to see me.This went on for a week,he'd call to see what i was doing but neither of us ever mentioned when we were going to see each other.Then he phoned me while i was staying over at my best friends house and he picked me up.We went to the spot were he took me the day me slept together and everything was normal..as usual laughing and joking.He was still tender and sweet.Then he stopped talking to me..i didn't call hime either because i'm a stubborn character but after a while i sent him a msg to call me because we had to talk.When he did he was distant and i asked him if he wanted to be with me..he didn't answer so i said to him that it was over obviously.That was it.We still talk via msn but not like before..if u saw our conversations you wouldn't be able to tell that we were together even though he asks about my family.I know it's not another girl because cyprus is a small island and i would know if he was with someone.I keep wondering if it's because he went to university and wanted to be independent.I'm very confused,i go out with other boys and with my friends we have a great time,but i always end up comparing them to my ex.Can anyone make any sense of this?Help!!