Well, my problem is that ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and 4 months, and i love him and well he loves me too. The big problem is that he is 19 and im to be 20 next month, and well he is still curious. He looks at girls and well all that kind of stuff, and im jelaous and it angries me. On top of all, he is starting to exercise and lose weight dieting, and i know why, because he wants to be noticed by other girls. I know this for a fact because once he broke up with me and he said "Everytime i run i wanna lose weight so all those girls want me and i can tell them no because im with you", well, im afraid once they do notice him he is not gonna say no. He works an hour and a half away form here, and he lives there for now, we see each other on the weekends, and sometimes he stays here, but now hes gonna have to work a lot because he needs money at least for the next 2 months before we star school. I tell him i think he is ok the way he is, and seriously i do, i dont think he needs to lose anything, bus he says that i should respect his desicion. Well, im just worried, because weve had conversations, and he is very attracted to other women, he loves me, but he still likes other people, he likes to look a lot. Sometimes even when hes with me. About 2 months ago we were going to break up because he was going to move (an hour away) and i wanted a long distance relationship but he didnt, and after crying and crying he decided he wanted to stay and study for another semester down here cuz it is a better school. He still calls me a lot, and we are good together, but sometimes i feel as if he wished he had something different, i think he wishes he was single again, and he could flirt and have fun with different girls. My question is how do i get him intereted in me again?? Like before... he used to love me a lot. I screwed up by being really jelaous, but he has friend so far away from here i dont know what he does. I dont know if i should start getting away a little and not calling him and not doing so many things for him. I mean i do a lot for him, i paid $400 to go meet his dad in Ohio, i go visit him all the time at his house no matter how far it is, and everytime we dont get to see each other im the one whos sad, but he doesnt give a sh%t, at least thats how it feels. How do i make him know that he could lose me, and that im not gonna be here forever, i wish i could just make him want me like before. If anybody has any advice please post.
Also, i wanna know why men always have to look at other women like that, sexually?, does it happen to all men?, no matter how beautiful their girl is, they always wanna look and stare, one guy said "it doesnt have to be better, it has to be different", well it this is true, how come its not the same for women?? or for me?? im perfectly fine with staying with him for the rest of my life, even though i know im only 19, i dont need anybody else....why does he make me feel like he eventually will??
HELP!!!!