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grace is gone by dave matthews you outta know- alanis cry me a river- justin timberlake

hello there, i too am going through a similar situation, we broke up about 6 weeks ago and she started dating someone a week later. I am assuming they are happy because i hear that they are out together all the time and it kills me. I think about her every day and everynight. I recently went to the doctors and got some sleeping pills and he also started me on paxil. I hope these work because i dont know how much more i can take of this. I dont know how long it will take to get over her or if i ever will, i was planning on marrying this girl and now that is all gone. I think to myself, does she even think of me at all or does she just enjoy her honeymoon phase of this new relationship? I need answers because i am driving myself insane. When am i going to stop thinkning about her, will these thoughts go away, i dont want them anymore. Anyone help us.

Well my Gf and i had broken up about a month ago after 8 months. She started seeing a guy 3 days later, he has a lot of money and i think that is why she is with him because of his nice new truck. Its really frustrating because i have tried the no contact thing but it doesnt seem to work, it just helped her to be with this guy. i know that there were some problems in our relationship but no relationship is perfect, people are different, have different views. I dont know what to do because i saw for the first time in a month at a bar and she walked in holding his hand, walked right past me and didnt even look at me. I think that i should et a little more respect thant that. I also dont understand how you can love someone one day and then someone else the next. When i tell someone i love them i mean it. I dont know what i am expecting out of this post but i just needed to vent a little. I am driving myself insane and dont know where to turn for help.

but what if they are thinking the same thing, what if they are waiting for you to call or what if they have found someone else like in my situation. What if they are saying if they loved me they would call. It just seems to work both ways and you may be outwaiting each other until it is forever over.

I have recently broken up with my GF of 8 months, and we were both in love with each other but faught way too much. so one day in a fight i told her it was over then the next morning i wanted to take it all back, she didnt want any of it. Ten i find out 3 days later that she has been seeing this guy. I am so heart broken beause whenever we faught we always said it was over then 10 minutes later we would be crying in each others arms saying that we could not live without eachother. I just dont understand how this time is different and how she could jump right into another relationship doing all the things that we used to do. I dont know how much more i can take. we broke up 4 weeks ago and i have not seen or heard from her in 3 weeks except for the fact that i have to drive bye her house to get to work and i see his truck outside all the time, it really kills me. Anyone have any advise.

I dont even know what i am doing anymore, i cant sleep, eat, concentrate or anything. What help should i get, im in great need, i dont know how much more of this i can take. I cant get her out of my mind and it is ruiing my life. I love her so much and i cant stop. its been 4 weeks now and i still feel the same as i did day one. WOW am i messed up, she doesnt even care

i am just worried that it might cruch me though to see her and also to see him there because i see his big nice truck parked outside everynight. but i know that i am going to run into her at the beach or some other bar anyways

do you think it would be a bad idea to go into the bar she works at to have drinks, its where all my friends went before and while we were dating. Should i let this stand in the way. Plus i think that if she sees me then she might miss me. I feel like if i have no contact than it is easier for her to forget me as well.

Well i did a bad thing, i drove bye her house only to see his truck parked outside. It brought back all the memories of us hanging out in her room whle she was getting ready for work, her glass shower that you could see her because the door would be left open. All these thoughts are of him doing all this with her. I dont think i am strong enough to go much more. I cry all the time and cant eat or sleep. I feel like i need to talk to her or something. How can she do this to me? How can i be replaced so quickly. It just all doent make sense and even after all this stuff she is doing i would take her back in a second. Why cant i stop thinking about her? I am going insane. Anyone have any advise for me, do i try to talk to her one last time, it just hurts so much to think she doesnt even care anymore and that she is having the time of her life with this new guy who is a drug dealer on the side.

How can she just dance with that guy like that, she knew it would kill me and it did. It ripped my heart out and its all i can picture before i go to sleep and when i wake up. This is so hard for me because i thought she was the one, i had even thought about proposing to her. We were the male and female versions of each other. I wish i could see indise her head to see if she feel anything. She is a bartender and has guys hitting on her all the time and i think that it is easy for her to get caught up in that and forget about me. I feel that all she thinks about is the bad stuff in our relationship and none of the good. She is very buy and its the summer, she is out partying all the time and it seems as though she has no time to think about all the great times. I also just got pictures developed of us on a trip on Valentines day, this was a great trip and i want her to have the pictures to see what she is missing out, well i guess she can do this with the new guy now. Im soooooo lost without her. How do i get over her and move on.

Hello there, i have been reading these pages for days now and have found them to be very helpfull. Here is my situation, i am 26 and my ex is 20. We broke up with each other just over 3 weeks ago and have not talked or seen each other for over 2 weeks now. The last time i saw her was at a bar and as soon as she saw me she turned around and started to grind with this guy. I later find out that night from some people that she had dumped me to be with this guy. I dont even know how this could have happened because we were together all the time. She worked at this bar and i guess he would go in there. He is 28 and has lots of meny and drives a brand new Denali. He isnt even good looking. I guess what i am trying to get at is i think about her all the time, it has consumed my life and i think my friends are tired of hearing about her. I keep this false hope in my head that she is going to call me up someday and whenever the phone rings i run to see if it is her. I also find out that she is working out with this guy and this really upsets me. I dont know how to move on. I think that i am infatuated with her. She is honestly the most beautiful girl i have ever seen in person. She is a model and is in magazines. I find it so hard because i liked the thought of being with the hottest girl and now i am alone while this rich guy has her. Im not going to lie and say we didnt have our fight but i dont this anyone could treat her the way i did. I was wondering if she ever thinks about me and the times we had together. I think of all the good times and cant even think of all the bad. Does she think of all the little things or is it just possible she has totally forgotten about me. We dated for 8 months and spent everyday togfether and talked on the phone 200 times a day. I cannot believe it is over and i dont know how much more i can take. Anyone have any comments.