paranoid new user trying to be somewhat anonymous here

Hi all

Im a female in my late 20s, married and in over my head with everything. There has been mental and emotional abuse from his side, as well as a few other scary situations but he changed and has been great for a while now. Also we have been in an extremely pressured situation, so the question is how much of his behavior was expected and how much wasnt. Very recently I got to know another man. I have not cheated. My husband has gotten extremely jealous about the other man. Im completely new here but Im kind of hoping I could DM someone as Im a little scared someone I know might find this post. Not sure if thats an option here...

I'm not sure what you mean. Can you elaborate, please?

There are no professionals here... we are a group of strangers hoping we dont personally know anyone here as well. We all do our best to offer the best advice we can. I dont know who you should DM but i highly doubt you do know anyone. Im sorry you feel so unsafe.

Have you tried to contact a women's shelter? They have the means to lead you in the right direction.

Nobody here knows who you are. Unless you tell someone you know that you are on here and what your user name is, nobody knows who you are.