Block him?

Hello internet!

I've been with a guy for about a year, the only problem is he lives in California and I live in Paris, France... We were doing okay (he told me I was the only one for him, he could never find anyone as good, love of his life etc etc). Anyway, a week ago, he told me he had cheated on me. This girl knew of our relationship, she apparentlty doesn't care. He made me guess who it was. Now he tells me he likes her and he "of course" loves me but I am too far away. I asked him if he would do it again, he said yes. Then said he was depressed and could relate to this other girl in person.. shocked, I asked him what he wanted from me then and he said he wanted to stay best friends and still loved me... I don't know whether to block this guy from everything? We have been together for awhile and it hurts. It's hard to see him all the time online because when I do I imagine them. I am so disappointed in him and don't understand his position. His friends tell him he is making a mistake. I think so too. I love him... Should I delete him from my life though if he is disrespecting me in this way?

Have you two met in person?

block, delete and move on. you will be happier. good luck.

If you haven't met you are not together with him.... block him and forget him..... try to find someone closer so you can have an actual relationship with him. This jerk isn't worth your time or your tears!

Hello internet!

 

I've been with a guy for about a year, the only problem is he lives in California and I live in Paris, France... We were doing okay (he told me I was the only one for him, he could never find anyone as good, love of his life etc etc). Anyway, a week ago, he told me he had cheated on me. This girl knew of our relationship, she apparentlty doesn't care. He made me guess who it was. Now he tells me he likes her and he "of course" loves me but I am too far away. I asked him if he would do it again, he said yes. Then said he was depressed and could relate to this other girl in person.. shocked, I asked him what he wanted from me then and he said he wanted to stay best friends and still loved me... I don't know whether to block this guy from everything? We have been together for awhile and it hurts. It's hard to see him all the time online because when I do I imagine them. I am so disappointed in him and don't understand his position. His friends tell him he is making a mistake. I think so too. I love him... Should I delete him from my life though if he is disrespecting me in this way?

If you have not met him in person, block, delete, forget. Don't fall for long distance relationships. Either fall for someone local or move. And don't put up with disrespect. Be happy alone, that way when you meet someone you like you will be even happier.

Sorry little precision,

We were together in person for two months before the distance and he came to Paris for valentines day I am happy alone it hurts because it's very recent...

We were together in person for about two months before I went back to Paris, he came to visit me and everything...

Okay sorry for the misunderstanding! Then he is an even bigger jerk! You deserve better, block him and delete his number, he can't be trusted

sara-pezzini I should it's just that I love him still so I'm having trouble making that decision... It might just be temporary and he'll realize.. I don't know if I would want him back after this... I think I will talk to him to get a clean cut. Thank you for your answers!

Block, delete, move on. The guy is a scammer and a jerk. You deserve better. Look for a guy where you live.

Unfortunately it's hard to turn a 2 mos fling into a LDR. At least he admitted that he's dating locally so you can cut him off and move forward rather than waste any more time on this.

" This girl knew of our relationship, she apparentlty doesn't care" Neither did he.

You need to be done with this. He does not love you. Block and delete!