Do i still need to talk to him

my ex and I broke up and shortly after I think due to stress I miscarried. I got a family member to tell him since things were not on good terms and He said when Im ready to talk he wants to hear it from me. Im not sure why.. Its like he's in disbelief. Im still too sad to talk should I my family says not a good idea.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Yes if it is still to hard, to talk to him you can put it off for longer.

But somewhere in the future if it was me I would have a talk to him to close this part.

It is always good to get closure to as many things as one could to lessen the pain, questions one carry the rest of ones life from something like you have gone through.

((((Hugs))))