diddums Posted February 7, 2016 Share Posted February 7, 2016 So I came to the forum a few days ago about how I was comparing myself to this girls ex and feeling self doubt. We continued talking and it was great, till a few days ago she stopped responding after I responded to one of her messages. I let it go as she sometimes responds a day later after reading messages. I sent her a message a day later and no response again yet she read it. I've let it go all weekend and not bothered messaging didn't want to be a pest. Now I just feel like there is no point pursuing or that I should fire one last message sometime next week and that will decide. Confusion is what I feel haha Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted February 7, 2016 Share Posted February 7, 2016 Why all this texting? If you like her why didn't you just ask her out and get to know her in real life? I read so many people screwing up chances by thinking that texting is pursuing. pffft. Link to comment
Sportster2005 Posted February 7, 2016 Share Posted February 7, 2016 So I came to the forum a few days ago about how I was comparing myself to this girls ex and feeling self doubt. We continued talking and it was great, till a few days ago she stopped responding after I responded to one of her messages. I let it go as she sometimes responds a day later after reading messages. I sent her a message a day later and no response again yet she read it. I've let it go all weekend and not bothered messaging didn't want to be a pest. Now I just feel like there is no point pursuing or that I should fire one last message sometime next week and that will decide. Confusion is what I feel haha I wouldn't text her again. You have two unanswered texts, that says it all. Link to comment
diddums Posted February 12, 2016 Author Share Posted February 12, 2016 Hey, so random update. I didn't bother messaging back. Got on with my week perfectly fine. Then out of no where thought, you know what I'm gonna send her something its been over a week. Ye I know I shouldn't have, but I literary was in a state of I don't care if she doesn't or does because I'm kinda pissed off someone could just go so cold. Few hours later I actually get a reply back, a big sorry message and her explaining that she's been really busy all week. Not sure how I feel about it, and I haven't replied yet to it. I wasn't expecting a reply or if I was to get one I was expecting a blunt short answer. Not a big apology :S Link to comment
youareworthy Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 Dear Diddums, I agree with IThinkICan. Ask her out for a face to face, real life date. Youareworthy Link to comment
tracyis300 Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 Dude, this girl is a waste of time. No one is too busy to respond back. She most likely has someone else she is interested in. I've been in one of these scenarios, and from experience? It's not to your favor. But i hope i am wrong. No one should go through something like this. Have you communicated with her besides "text"? If not! Then it's not looking to good. Link to comment
diddums Posted February 12, 2016 Author Share Posted February 12, 2016 Don't worry I thought the same about the whole "busy" thing. Still not replied as I honestly just feel like it's not gonna be anything and I prefer people to be up front even if it's about not being interested haha. I sadly haven't but I think I'm just gonna reply asking her out for a drink. If I get a no or "busy" excuse I'm done. Link to comment
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