Would my ex turn me down?

Me and my ex have a history over the last 5 years. In the last year, I broke up with him, we started dating other people. Long story short.. I want him back and he knows this. We hooked up on Christmas last year behind his current girlfriends back and told me how much he missed me and was miserable in his relationship. Two days later he tells me that he thought she was leaving him well she didn t....now he doesn t want to "hurt" her because she has nowhere to go. Mutual friends are in my corner and also do not like the girlfriend because she has alienated his friends because of her controlling ways. He told me to give him time to be completely rid of her and it would work our for the best of us. So now I m just waiting on him and think I should either A. Kick it into high gear to find out if that s really want he wants or B. Finally let go and quit wishing for the expected. My idea is to go over to his house when he is alone wearing a sexy school girl outfit for the 1st time (this was always something he asked of me but I never did) and just jump on him and show him what I want. My only fear is.... what if he pushes me off and turns me down? Will a guy really do this? I need suggestions.... his friends say he won t turn me down, that s there is no way possible. Well that s the story... answer away...

Yeah...sadly, your friends not only don't get a vote, they give really stupid advice.

Picture this...you put on your sexy school girl outfit (ick), you go over...he says he's all hot for you and takes a few pictures....and then yelss "joke$ and posts them on the internet.

How cool would that be!

You're trying to "win" him back with sex???

You are his side chick.

I think you ought to cool your jets for this guy and only accept being a one and only girlfriend of someone.

It's not right to sneak around.

Wearing a schoolgirl outfit is not the solution.

Don't be intimate with this guy or even date hm or contact him unless he is untangled from this girlfriend.

Even then? You're better looking elsewhere for love.

Look, the thing is, he's with someone else. He's already cheated on her with you, and all your friends are making up stories about her controlling ways.

He says he doesn't want to hurt her. Guess what? It's up to him to make the decision, and no skimpy schoolgirl uniform is going to help make his mind up. Something else might come up, but it's not his mind he'll be focusing on.

Why don't you try and do things with integrity? He knows you're interested, so let him deal with his stuff first, and then unleash the schoolgirl uniform.

To answer your question...given his history of cheating, he probably will have sex with you. And then go right back to his girlfriend who he doesn't want to "hurt".

He chose to move on after you dumped him...sounds quite normal to me. I have to wonder if the reason you want him back is because he now has a new girlfriend?

At any rate, the one being dealt the cruelest hand is his current girlfriend.

Lol...you must be really, really young, and you've both watched too much porn! Real life is not a porn movie though...there are actual emotions involved and people - such as his current girlfriend - get hurt. When you grow up hopefully you'll learn that you can't just go around hurting people just because you want to.

Of course he won't turn you down! He'll gladly take the sex, because why not? It's free sex offered on a platter. But it doesn't mean he'll take you back, that he has any feelings for you or that even if you two get back together he won't cheat on you. Go ahead and wear your school girl uniform, but don't cry when things end up blowing up in your face!