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    Question for girls regarding Threesome / Double penetration

    Ok, im 18 currently in university, and randomly at a party with me and my whole group of friends, dont ask me how but the topic of double penetration came up.

    And like almost every girl there admited to fantasizeing about it and such.

    Like that suprised me, because i wonder like Is my girlfriend wanting to have more than just me?
    Like im not one personally who would want to encounter a threesome, weither it be 2 girls 1 guy, or 2 guys one girl.


    i'd feel hurt if my girlfriend wanted that, but like

    Do alot of girls actually fantasize over it, but in reality don't want to do it?

    There are things i may occasionally fantasize about it, but i'd never want to do it in reality.

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    i'm one who never fantasizes about threesomes. if your girl just fantasizes, but won't do it in reality, there's no problem right?

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    Well, if it makes you feel any better, you can do the double penetration without a second man in the bed. Why not just ask her what she's thinking?

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    I fantasize about them the same way I fantasize about screwing brad pitt. I would never actually want to do it in reality!

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    Wanting something..... and fantasizing about something is 2 different things.
    I have sexual fantasies about things that are hot in my imagination,but if it happen in the real life.... 100% sure I wouldnt like it that much, it wouldnt be as sexy, and definitely I dont want most of my fantasies become true, after all,like the name says... Its a fantasy

    but I assume you do not even know if your gf fantasizes about it, cuz she didnt mention it, so, rly, calm down and relax.... and dont ask her about it.. Its private, and not something you should ask her about, cuz 1) u are gonna make yourself look weird by asking "do you ever fantasize about having more than 1 c*ck in you?", 2) theres a big chance that all it does is getting u hurt.. and 3) its her privacy, Im sure she doesnt ask you about any specific fantasies.


    So stop thinking about it and if your relationship is good then dont let so small stuff get you down & worried..

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    I've only occassionally heard of girls fantasizing about more than 1 guy at a time, but extremely rarely about double penetration.

    FYI, OP, you used the word "like" 5 times in your post inappropriately. People are more likely to give help/advice if they can easily read and understand your post. Sorry to be the grammar police, but this will help here as well as university.

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    i think it's possible that many of the girls who "admitted" to fantasizing about it, were only doing so because they thought it made them sound "cool" and adventurous. i'm not saying that girls don't fantasize about this ever (though i honestly never have, one penis is good enough for me, ouchh.) but just that i really don't think it's as common as these girls made it seem. if i'm wrong about them, i'm wrong, but i can tell you there's at least one girl out there who doesn't need more than one man in bed (mee)

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    Double penetration, to me, seems best left in porn, where I don't ever have to encounter it! It just sounds painful and unpleasant. And that's just the physical aspects. If your girlfriend is committed to you, and you're confident in this, she's probably not thinking about having another guy, with or without you.

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    I do not fantasize about it. Two dongs is one dong too many. Double penetration as in both in the same hole at once? Gross. Not many guys would be comfortable with their penis touching another guy's

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    Quote Originally Posted by paintedfish [Register to see the link]
    Double penetration, to me, seems best left in porn, where I don't ever have to encounter it! It just sounds painful and unpleasant. And that's just the physical aspects. If your girlfriend is committed to you, and you're confident in this, she's probably not thinking about having another guy, with or without you.
    god, yeah... imagine being stretched like that, and the delicate skin in between tearing and being incontinent and whatnot... ugh!

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