libra8104

NNNOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! OK? NO! OMG! NO! Why? Because either one of three could happen: 1) you ask her out, she is not physically attracted to you, and then you feel hurt and embarrassed, and end up avoiding each other, thus ruining a great friendship 2) you ask her out, she says yes, you are in love for a while, then it doesn't work out, and it's akward, and you avoid each other, thus ruining what once was a great friendship 3) you ask her out, you guys fall in love, live happily ever after amen look, i don't know....if i were you, i wouldn't...but what do i now? do whatever feels right

If she is the one... then you should know it. You should feel it... i don't this girl is the one...i mean if she loves you as much as she says, then she'd break up with the other guy....to be with you. And why would she deny kissing you if she feels deeply for you? Sometimes, people who you think are perfect for you aren't. It's hard to explain, really. The person who you think is your type could subconsciously be the one you have had previous relationships with, which ended up a disaster, and then you search your whole life for the person who you think is the one, but in the end, you realise, that you just dated one person who was wrong for you, and made you feel heartbreak. Going in a cycle of bad relationships. I'm sorry i was babbling, did i make any sense at all???

You should do whatever feels right.... (oh that is good advice isn't it?) i'm sorry but i don't know...it is your choice.....you should honestly do whatever your heart tells you to do.....take a risk...it will make all the difference Goodluck!!!!!!

Yeah, of course you should ask him. Just be open and honest. And if for some reason he says no...then he is probably missing out on a great person. His loss right? If you really forsee a long lasting relationship...go for it..... chances are if you feel that was about him...he feels that way about you...but is shy as well

You're gfs mum is dying? sorry to hear that.....anyway, look, you have to be there for her, if you love her...do you love her? it doesn't matter....it is your duty as a human being to be there when another person needs you...and she needs your support, don't tell her that it is going to be alright, everything will be ok..she is going through a hard time. She needs to grieve.... give her time......just don't piss her off or offend her...and try to be sensitive to her needs..she needs you now more than ever (probably) hope it works out between you two

Man....that was long... Anyway, just move on...ok? no offense, but, she doesn't want you anymore, and she probably is missing out on a great person. But you have to move on.....of course it hurts...break-ups are hard...but you'll live.....just try to get on without her...try not to think about her. Get on with your life....everything will be alright

Hey...look....confession, i didn't read your whole post thingy...because it is way too long...but...i did read the first bit, and the end ......don't go trying to win her back, because chances are you'll make a fool out of yourself, no offense. NO, DON"T RISK LOSING YOUR FRIENDSHIP MAN! I think that you should move on, you have to eventually..you will find someone, even better than her.....i know you will...you are only 19 for gods sake..and your saying that she is the best you've ever had....JEEZ.. you have so much time to find "the one". And if she really is the one for you, then she will come to you...because it's fate... you'll live....everything will work out just fine....all in good time....