Racing ahead into a courtship comes with responsibility, caution and education in order to avoid the possible danger of having your heart broken before taking a sober look at potential partners. It is easy to feel excited about a new relationship and let emotions cloud rational thought when you are eager to be enamored. Unfortunately, individuals who frequently “fall in love” may be setting themselves up for regret later.
Research has insightfully revealed the actual danger of over-eagerness and rushing into relationships. This hurried approach to love is known as “emophilia.” This is characterized by rapidly falling in love – often and easily. These those prone to such intense pursuits of romance are far more likely to have expectations that may well exceed the abilities of their selected partner. The repercussions for them can be disastrous.
It turns out that there are certain traits that are particularly attractive to those who dive into relationships without assessing the reality of their selections. Such characteristics comprise what is called the “Dark Triad.” The three traits that come together here are narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism. Although these traits have a certain alluring attraction – particularly with those in a position of haste – they are often identified with shallow, short-term mating strategies, as opposed to longer-term ones.
The reality of evaluating a potential partner's dark triad traits is both art and science. It necessitates an intuitive approach while also drawing on intimate knowledge of their tendencies and behaviors. Unfamiliarity with such skills can be an obstacle that keeps a person moving forward at great speed toward a potentially erroneous choice of partners.
Thus, it is essential to keep in mind that emophilia combined with dark triad traits is not conducive to finalizing a long-term relationship. By taking a few steps back and rethinking the impact of evaluating traits that form the dark triad, an individual has the potential to take control of the courtship in a far healthier manner.
Naturally, this does not mean overanalyzing the process of selecting a partner to the extent that the connection is drained of all emotion. But it does suggest, rather importantly, making sure the criteria for choosing a soul mate is appropriate to one’s goals. Taking time to identify what truly is important in a partner will allow for a stronger connection in the long run. Furthermore, it should not take extensive emotional investment without a clear understanding and commitment from all parties involved.
Discovering emotional stability amidst excitement and attraction is key in balancing racing into a courtship but avoiding the risks of rushing into romance. Individuals falling into the grip of emophilia must recognize the need to evaluate their decisions carefully. By becoming aware of and better understanding the dark triad traits, they can make sure that the path they choose in their courtships will be safe, secure, and founded on the building blocks of true harmony.
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