ut804 Posted April 9, 2012 Share Posted April 9, 2012 Quick question on blocking: I blocked my ex a few months ago on OKCupid. Was trying to heal myself and move on when to my horror he appears on my "welcome" screen (where they show you people who updated their profiles). He did not view my profile, I'm talking about the section where they show you random men who updated their profiles. It said he edited his profile and added a pictire which I could all see. My question is, if I can see him, can he see me? How does the blocking work? He cannot send me a message but can still see me or he can not see or send me a message? I cannot find anything about this on the site. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted April 9, 2012 Share Posted April 9, 2012 Yes, he can still look at your profile but he cannot message you. Link to comment
ut804 Posted April 9, 2012 Author Share Posted April 9, 2012 ahhh seriously?? I don't want him knowing I'm on there and still single But would I appear in his search results if he can't message me? thanks Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Yeah. It could happen. Don't worry about it though. If he is on there too, he has no reason to judge you. Link to comment
ut804 Posted April 12, 2012 Author Share Posted April 12, 2012 Yeah, eek he had a lot of issues Well I wanted to disable my account anyway and try out link removed again, so i did that. Thanks! Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted April 12, 2012 Share Posted April 12, 2012 good luck. i do not like link removed but it works for a lot of people. Link to comment
ut804 Posted April 13, 2012 Author Share Posted April 13, 2012 I have tried match before with no luck. But everytime I hear someone getting married from an online dating site it's always link removed! So I fugured I would give it another shot. Link to comment
Brightest Dark Posted April 15, 2012 Share Posted April 15, 2012 I wish there was a way to stop people looking at your profile. I notice one guy keeps coming to look at my page. Not all the time, but maybe once every couple of months. It is annoying as his name and pic are a little freaky. I don't like the idea of him keep coming to my page to look at my pic. Ugh! I was looking to see if there was a way to block them from coming but I guess you can't. I've sent OKC an email about it. I wish they could add that to the settings. Link to comment
ut804 Posted April 15, 2012 Author Share Posted April 15, 2012 I wish there was a way to stop people looking at your profile. I notice one guy keeps coming to look at my page. Not all the time, but maybe once every couple of months. It is annoying as his name and pic are a little freaky. I don't like the idea of him keep coming to my page to look at my pic. Ugh! I was looking to see if there was a way to block them from coming but I guess you can't. I've sent OKC an email about it. I wish they could add that to the settings. I know right! I mean with Facebook, for example, when you block someone they can not only contact you but they also can't see anything from you. I don't know why OKCupid can't do this. I don't feel comortable with someone I don't like or don't feel comfortable with having access to my profile. I don't want them to see certain information or for them to "spy" on me or check up on me. They really need to change that! Link to comment
mfan Posted April 16, 2012 Share Posted April 16, 2012 I wish there was a way to stop people looking at your profile. I notice one guy keeps coming to look at my page. Not all the time, but maybe once every couple of months. It is annoying as his name and pic are a little freaky. Buy him A-list! Then he'll browse anonymously and you won't see him visiting you. Wait, never mind. Link to comment
brickheart Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 Can you get your ex to block you? What I did was answer a question that he took personally... ugh, that conversation still makes my heart hurt... anyway, then he "hid" me and now he doesn't see me at all. Link to comment
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