Im not sure what the best way is to handle this. Either to back off and drop contact or something else.
My bf has been acting different for about the past 5 days. I saw him NYE and he fell asleep on my couch. We didn't do anything. I haven't seen him since. I have asked him numerous times to do stuff, places to see as we are both off on holidays from work, dinner, movies, going out etc. I either get ignored or a no. Something was clearly bothering him but it took him about 2 days to tell me. I dont know if i actually believe his answer.
He told me that he asked me twice to see me one day and i said no. Now, he asked me at 5pm to go out. I was busy. He could have asked earlier. I said we could do it the next day. He then asked to go to the movies. I said no, but mainly due to the fact it almost $20 bucks to go and few hours before i just asked him if he wanted to get dinner and he told me he couldn't afford it. How can he afford a movie if he cant afford a pizza?
Anyways, apparently that is why he is 'angry' with me - because i said no. I have barely had any replies to my texts. I have asked him to do stuff, either get a no or no reply. I asked him again today and he is apparently going out.
This has been going on for about 5 days. Im fed up with it!! Im asking for him to come with me to places etc, i guess trying to make him feel that he is wanted, but it is clearly not working.
What do i do. Do i just back off and not contact him and let him do it. I dont see how you can be this angry or annoyed with someone for so long over something like this. I get 'no' from him all the time. We have plans tomorrow and i have asked him if he still wants to go. If we dont, we loose a lot of money as its been booked.