drdread233 Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 Ok, this is somewhat of a strange issue. Whenever my gf and me make out, or even hold each other close when we're lying/sitting on the couch, I always seem to get an erection. But I'm not thinking of any sexual thoughts whatsoever, but it even sometimes happens when we're holding hands. I don't understand. I don't know if she has noticed, but yeah. Anyone else had this before? Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 This topic has come up before, and was very active. Hmm.... wonder why. When you are with someone you love romantically, there is a rush of excitment and emotions. That can be enough to get you hard down there. You can be hugging, kissing, or just holding hands, but the excitement is still there. It's normal. Don't feel embarrassed, for most girls it is flattering and even a turn on, provided you are in a relationship with them. Read the above thread and you'll get lots of opinions that pretty much say the same thing. Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 Strange issue? You're supposed to get erections around your girlfriend bro! Even just thinking about her when she's not there. It's when you stop getting erections...that's the problem... You sound perfectly normal to me! Link to comment
ocrob Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 You definitely should be getting erections. When I am with a woman that I like, I get erections walking into a restaurant. It is all good. Link to comment
Dako Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 "Little drdread" has a tiny brain of his own, unconnected to yours. You'll get used to it. Some guys take a $10 pill to get wood, so think of all the money you're saving! Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 Some guys take a $10 pill to get wood, so think of all the money you're saving! Just $10? I thought some of that stuff was more expensive then that. And yes, you'll get used to it. Link to comment
Dako Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 I sometimes would pay $20 to turn it off! Link to comment
the yang to the worlds yin Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 it's perfectly normal. for you, it shows that your body most obviousely has a great chemical connection with hers. and for her, it means that she'll know that she does indeed turn you on, and not only is that a huge ego boost for her, it can also help light her fire as well. it's a win win situation, and just be sure to wear a long enough shirt to make it a tad less noticeable in public. but be happy, it's natural and most foten times a very good thing thats happening to you Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 wow...a foreign concept to me that that is something you will "get used to." I'm sure there are equivelants for girls...can't think of any right now.... But from MY perspective, if a girl does notice it, at first its embarrassing. Especially when she's not sure what, if anything she is supposed to do about it. After a while, it IS pretty exciting and flattering... Link to comment
Dako Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 You have to get use to it, or spend time visualizing Rodney Dangerfield. It really is a curse especially for young guys who have it pop up in math class or during a test. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 Visualizing Rodney Dangerfield.... but then you might get a complex about not getting any respect for it. Girls can get just as excitied, but its less noticeable in there case. Unless erect nipples show through there shirt. But for guys, it's harder to miss. Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 I would think your lady would be flattered to know she is responsible for your stiffies...they would probably make her feel sexy... Link to comment
Dreng3333 Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Yeah man it's perfectly normal. Happens to me all the time. As far as I know girls either ignore it or consider it a turn-on, unless they are inmature or just don't know any better, in which case I guess they could find it gross. Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 If you are really self-conscious, it always helps to joke about it... Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 friscodj - I'm trying to think of a joke to make in that situation. But I can't think of any. Have any that you can think of? Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Yeah...I've said this before... "Oh...looks he likes you too!" Hey, she laughed... Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Haha... yes, that one does work. You know, when you are kissing someone, it's really "hard" to concentrate on anything else. (lame pun alert ) Link to comment
younger 22 Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 it's a normal reaction when opposite attracts. Male and female closeness can create unintentional reaction in their bodies Just be careful it can lead to somewhere you don't want if you continue to be alone with her. Link to comment
InaneCathode Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Im pretty self conscious about this, I dont have a problem when i kiss her on the lips or make out with her, but when i kiss her neck or she kisses mine i got problems real fast lol Link to comment
TAFFY Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 ShySoul, you could always use this line as a joke. One of the guys that I worked with was sleeping on the couch, and he had a "tent". One of the other senior medics came in, and saw it and she called everyone over and we gathered around the couch and he woke up and a bunch of women staring at him, and then he supervisor came in and wanted to know "who planted the tree in the middle of the couch?" Link to comment
ShySoul Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 Thanks Taffy, I'll remember that one. lol Link to comment
TAFFY Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 ShySoul, the stupid American phrase goes that "you should never assume anything, because when you assume, you make an * * * out of u and me. Sorry moderators. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 lol Actually I knew that one. The joke is that the guy saying the line is a sarcastic and rude French guy. So you have a rude Frech man talking about making an a** out of someone. Ahem... like himself? Link to comment
Northern Raccoon Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 Yeah this happens to me when i think about the girl that i like. it is probably just one of thoes unwanted erections, so nothing to worry, about unless she has seen it and thinks that your mind is some were ealse. Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Ok, this is somewhat of a strange issue. Whenever my gf and me make out, or even hold each other close when we're lying/sitting on the couch, I always seem to get an erection. But I'm not thinking of any sexual thoughts whatsoever, but it even sometimes happens when we're holding hands. I don't understand. I don't know if she has noticed, but yeah. Anyone else had this before? I got this same problem...me and my gf been goin out for a month (well today makes our four week aniversary and sunday makes a whole month but like I get erections like alot when were kissin or dancin and shes rubbin on me so I back off a lil...do women really like when a guy has an erection from a kiss or dance or that stuff??? Link to comment
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