Doctor Smurf Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 I know how daft a question this is, but how often do you guys usually manage to bring your lovely lady to climax? Either through sex, licking or any other ways I don't know about. I've never done it, buts it some form of naive dream I have... is the female orgasm as mythical as it used to be? Cheers all! Link to comment
Tigris Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 When I was married to my first husband I sometimes used to orgasm when we were having sex. With my second husband I very rarely orgasmed unless I played with my clitoris while he was on top of me. However, if they gave me oral sex I orgasmed everytime. Now I'm with my fiancee (I'm a lesbian now) I orgasm everytime she gives me oral or uses her fingers. I make her orgasm every time too. Some girls can't orgasm at all. Other girls aren't comfortable with making a lot of noise so psychologically that stops them from having one. Young girls might not have experienced the feelings yet and need to learn how to by masturbating. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 Something to remember is that SOME women never even orgasm until their 30s. I never did. Younger women can't always do it, I am not sure of the real reasons why - it might be correlated to self esteem and comfort with their own body. I know I was mighty uptight in my 20s and that probably hindered my ability to fully let go and actually climax. Since you are 17 I assume any girls you have slept with are around that age as well......teenage girls don't climax a lot just becuase this is still a new thing for them and they are unable to fully let themselves go in passion and just can't. Don't feel hard on yourself for not having made this happen yet. I doubt it has a thing to do with you or your bedroom skills. So my point here is it might not be anything at all YOU can do differently. And just so you know, women can enjoy sex as much wihtout orgasming at all and are different than men this way (not all women but a good deal of them). I dont need to orgasm in order to enjoy sex with my husband. It can be a great bonus when I do, but I love the intimacy, the touching, the closeness and that makes it very enjoyable for me even without the "O". Link to comment
EvaGina Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 I orgasm on average every 3rd or so time we have sex... its harder at the moment because he cant go down on me (!!!) but yeah, I need to pent up a bit before I can come... Link to comment
Aurian Posted May 7, 2007 Share Posted May 7, 2007 Oral sex- every time By hand - 80% of the time Just intercourse - never (feels good though, I just get orgasmic feelings from intercourse). Link to comment
happywithher Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 sex 2-4 times everytime record is seven anal when im playing with her clit everytime just anal gets very close hand everytime her hand with phone sex everytime unless she stops purposely tongue everytime sometimes miltiple depending on how long im down there i personally love going down on my girlie i love licker her * * * as well on top of that i can have sex up to 6 times in a two hour period we have had sex almost coninuously for four hours or more on several occasions Link to comment
EvaGina Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 the difference between womans orgasms are vast! I come once, after AAAAAGES, but its so, so intense, totally worth the wait... I shake for minutes and I need to sleep afterwards... my friends come at least 2 or 3 times every time, but as far as I can tell its not nearly as intense... not sure which one is preferable Link to comment
ryan123 Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 Im concearned with the fact that it takes up to an hour or 45 minutes of foreplay/intercourse for my girlfriend to climax. Like most guys I can't last 45 minutes or even an hour having intercourse. One time I tried oral for about a half hour and then went in from there and after about 15 minutes maybe 20 she finally came. She has never came before with any other guy besides me and only that one time, so I don't think its anything im doing wrong, but it could quite possibly be something im not doing right either. Any suggestions? Link to comment
boomvang Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 ex-wife came 5-10 times every session. Damn shame about that marriage... Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 This girlfriend gets off every time. Link to comment
Aurian Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 Im concearned with the fact that it takes up to an hour or 45 minutes of foreplay/intercourse for my girlfriend to climax. Like most guys I can't last 45 minutes or even an hour having intercourse. One time I tried oral for about a half hour and then went in from there and after about 15 minutes maybe 20 she finally came. She has never came before with any other guy besides me and only that one time, so I don't think its anything im doing wrong, but it could quite possibly be something im not doing right either. Any suggestions? There are less tiring methods of foreplay than sex or oral for an hour! You could try other things like dry-humping (aka "sex" with your clothes or undies on), giving each other massages, sharing a shower or bath, wrestling, or doing something else that puts you both in the mood, allows you to touch each other without exhausting you! Link to comment
EvaGina Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 make out kiss her all over use your fingers and tongue, but alternate and dont just treat the whole thing like a production line she can probably sense your impatience and it makes her nervous... Link to comment
swertyqwerty Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 I know the topic may be old... but I have gone to a girlfriend who used to come every few minutes (which made me feel really good about myself) to a girl who has only come once in her life before me, and maybe once with me although she wasn't sure if it was an "O" or not, which isn't making me feel too good Link to comment
ryan250 Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 My ex used to have an orgasm about 2-3 times having sex. Then another 1-2 times with oral. I made sure of it, too. Link to comment
Dev007 Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 I read somewhere that 85% of females can't experience orgasm with only traditional sex. (penis in vagina) Most need clitoris stimulation which is actually located outside of the vagina. To answer the question, I was a lucky one, my GF (ex) would orgasm about 90% or the time. Once in a while there was just a mental block that prevented it. Link to comment
melrich Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Something to remember is that SOME women never even orgasm until their 30s. I never did. Younger women can't always do it, I am not sure of the real reasons why - it might be correlated to self esteem and comfort with their own body. Yes I think that is very true in my experience. Link to comment
StarLily Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 I've never orgasmed from sex. When I get that feeling of wanting to pee I just focus so much on not orgasming and shift my position until I wouldn't feel that anymore. I'm so scared of that feeling, especially after I found out that females ejaculate too, worse than guys.... o.O Link to comment
Parsley Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Usually about 2-3 times each time we have sex. But then it's often quite blurred between when one time ends and another starts, lol. Had my first one through penetration alone the other day faaaaaanntasmic. Link to comment
swtbtrflydreams Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 everytime, I like to hold out until he cums then we go together that is amazing! Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 sometimes a guy has to get his first then finish the girl afterwards Link to comment
swtbtrflydreams Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I just have really good control of it. Nothing at all like cumming at the same time. It makes it more intense! Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 i must try that sometime Link to comment
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