Problems come in 3s

[mysteryman]

Hey everybody, here's the story. I met this girl one night, Ill call her K. Basically a day or two later she added me on myspace and ICQ. We talked a little bit, and slowly but surely became close. Then we drifted apart then Sunday she called me out of the blue. She told me that her bf had hit her and threatened to kill himself and even her. I went to her work and briefly saw her, she was really busy. Monday rolls around she asked me to go to the movies with her and some friends.

 

When I got there she was there with a girl Ill call her N. We just talked a little but nothing too big, they had already paid for their tickets so i bought them popcorn and a drink. We just hung out although I was beside K and spent most of my time with her. Then C pops up (another girl lol), she looked familiar but I didnt remember her. C and K went to Dairy Queen with me, and then I realized that I had med C along time ago at a football game.

 

Tuesday K had me and my friend up to her house and we along with C played wii. On Icq K told me that C liked me, that she thought N liked me and that someone else may (hinting that she herself did lol).

 

wendsday K and C came to my track meet to see me run lol. We talked a good bit. On icq she asked me if i liked C and i dodged the question, and she made the remark of someone else liking me.

 

Thursday, I didnt see them although i talked to them a little on ICQ and K invited me up to her house tomorrow, and told me i could bring my friend.

 

So there it is, Im in a tricky situation.

K- ive known the longest, pretty, smart, silly, cool

C- most like me, not as pretty as K, cool

N- The prettiest, cool, has a bf (but hes a jerk), but i have no means to talk to her and i dont think she likes me.

 

Any tips? I dont want to hurt any of them, and its hard for me to choose, especially if its down to C and K.

[neolithic]

hah, that little bit at the end reminds me of a logic game on the LSAT. ahh!!

[booberry]

Hahahaha, I was reading this and was ... is this kid a teenager? Yep you are. What horrible issues! You have a bounty of women in front of you and you don't know who to choose.

 

Honestly, I wouldnt get involved with the girl with the scary boyfriend, and you should maybe talk her into getting a restraining order regarding that "I'll kill myself and you" business. Give her advice, but dont get your fingerprints all over that train wreck.

 

Other than her, I'd go for the girl you fancy best. Good luck, hot shot! (I think the answer is C)

[Samedy]

I'm impressed that people still use ICQ.

[Ball Four]

You sir are on a hot streak. I love those. I should say loved. They tended to come in bunches when I was young. I think girls that age just see someone that someone else likes and decides "well hey he must be good so I'm gonna like him too!"

 

Just have fun and enjoy it while it lasts.

[Altruist]

Just be friend with all three girls. Ask each one of them out in turn but don't do it ina sneaky manner. Make sure they each know you are going out with all of them. It's when you try to do things behind their backs that they will resent you.

[Dating Coach]

I'd go for C.

 

Why? You think she's cool and it's fairly clear she's interested. Go out with her, get some experience. You never know, it might work out. If you pass up on her now you won't likely get a second chance.

[metrogirl]

You stud muffin you.......................

[Leonhart]

I'd choose K, if you had the chance to get her. If not, take C.

[mysteryman]

lol, i appreciate everybodys advice. And ball four thats the way it is with me, the whole streak thing. I've got somewhat of a strategy but i'll probaly have to wing a lot of it too. Thanks everybody, your input is greatly appreciated.

[ghost69]

i'd take the one you feel most compatible with. but remain friends with all of them and let it all out that you are seeing one of them. usually in a close group of girls like that (i'm assuming they are close) they crush on the same guy/s.