theproman23 Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 To start with I am 23 years old. Never had sex, never had oral sex......sadly the farthest I've gotten is a make out session with the girl I am currently "with", but that's another story. I have the biggest fear in the world that I am not going to be able to live up to anything when it comes to sex. I've never had it, never gotten close to it and am afraid that I am gonna end up being a virgin for a long time. The other day the girl I am currently with and I started talking about sexual situations and I started thinking about my adequacy and other stuff. First, she is more experienced than I am and I am so fearful that I am not going to be sexually satisfying to her when the time does comes. Second, I am having trouble get past the fact that she's been with other sexual partners, but that's probably because I've never had any. She's does'nt sleep around or anything but she's been with about 4 guys she has been intimate with. Third, What is the average penis size? Mine is about 5 inches or so and from what I've been reading that's smaller than average. All these things keep going through my head and just have been causing havoc. I am confident in almost everything else I do cause I've had experience in them. Sex seems to be the one thing I am truly lacking in or I have convinced myself that that's the only thing I am really lacking in and at times it really depresses me. I am a successful college graduate with a great job with a great career ahead of me. I don't want to be a mess when the time comes and appreciate any thoughts and advice anyone has to offer. Link to comment
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