rockon83 Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 I've known this girl for a few months, and liked her off the bat, but was going out with someone at the time. That ended, I saw this girl again at a party on a Sat nite (jan 27), and asked her out. She said yes. I called her tuesday (30th) to make plans, and we went out to shoot pool on sunday (feb 4). I called her tuesday (6th) to say hey, see if she wants to go out again. I didn't hear back from her for a week, and was surprised, since I considered us friends from before, and figured she'd at least call back. Some mutual friends of ours talked me into calling her once more. I called and left another message on monday (12th). Not sure why, but whatever... I figured it was over. She called back friday (16th) and apologized that she was so busy she would have only had time to call for 2 minutes and would've felt bad. I wasn't sure how much sense that made, but ok. Truth is she is in dental and school and is very busy, and had 3 tests during that week. She said she wanted to go out again. We went out monday (19th) to dinner. When I dropped her off, I started to say, if you want to go out again, let me know, but she was already saying yes.. I called her thursday (22nd) and left a message. She did fly to seattle for the weekend for a wedding she is part of, so I know she is busy... Maybe it's just me not being as busy as her, and thinking about it too much. But at the same time, I have a hard time reading her when we're out, if she likes me, and you would think if she was into someone she would at least make time to call them for a few minutes at least every other day... I want to take things slowly, but I'm trying to figure out if there is anything here... The other thing I dont know about, is when or how to ask her to be my girlfriend... Every other relationship I've had it just kind of happened... This time I feel like I'm going to have to ask her... Any feedback is appreciated Quote Link to comment
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