Dimplez Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Hi, two nights ago my b/f and i had sex and it was excellent. He wanted me to cum on his penis while he was inside of me and I was trying to but I couldn't. Unless I did and didn't know which I find is hard to do. Me not being stimulated enough was not the problem because I felt the pressure building up as though I was going to explode but I just couldn't cum. My question or issue is: Is it possible for me to have cum and we both not know and why is it that when I masterbate I know that I came because of the way I feel and stuff. Im so confused on all of this. Can any one please help me? Thanks in advance. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 You probably just thought about it to much. It happens a lot, dont worry about it. I hate that feeling tho, when you are SO CLOSE but it just wont happen. Link to comment
kellbell Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Hey there, A few things here. Perhaps ask your boyfriend not to mention it or pressure you to orgasm. Just go with the flow and try not to think about it so much or pressure yourself. Also, were you on top of him? Women tend to orgasm much easier while being on top because she can control the rythym and pressure. Next time, try to relax and have fun. It will happen. You know you are perfectly capable of having an orgasm because you have had them in the past via masterbation. I wish you all the best. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Also, were you on top of him? Women tend to orgasm much easier while being on top because she can control the rythym and pressure. I really dont get that! I know its true, but I just cant do it! Link to comment
kellbell Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 It works for me everytime! I am not kidding. Guarenteed "O"! Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 It hurts me if we really go for it, its like I have been kicked in the stomach. Link to comment
kellbell Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Awww, I am sorry. I am sure you were able to find other positions. Sorry to highjack the original poster's thread. Link to comment
astaro Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 granted this is from a guy's perspective but have you tryed leaning forward or even laying down ontop of him? need to find an angle that dosnt go as deep. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 me? Yeah, tried everything we CAN do it, and we do, but yes, I have to lean forward, and hold myself up, which means no hands free for "playing"... which I need to finish. PLus, Im always just concentrating on keeping rythm and stuff. Our sex life is fantastic tho, so I cant really complain EDIT: Sorry about the run-away thread OP Link to comment
Parsley Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 I think it may be because you were trying too hard. There's also such a thing as a 'missed' orgasm. You know like when you miss a sneeze? The same thing happened to me before, I'm still not sure if I actually came or just didn't breathe for so long that that was the reason I was lightheaded! But yeah, similar circumstances, I think I was just trying too hard, aiming to please and all that. Link to comment
Dimplez Posted February 26, 2007 Author Share Posted February 26, 2007 yea, well maybe I was thinking about it to much rather than letting it flow. Next time I would try to relax more and be on top to be in control. Thanks for all your help. Link to comment
kr356 Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 It hurts me if we really go for it, its like I have been kicked in the stomach. I used to be like that.. it feels like someone kicking you from the inside and it hurts more then feels good.. we tried all different ways ontop before I found one that was good.. sometimes i still get that pain but mostly it's fantastic Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 I used to be like that.. it feels like someone kicking you from the inside and it hurts more then feels good.. we tried all different ways ontop before I found one that was good.. sometimes i still get that pain but mostly it's fantastic of all things I can do the whole facing away thing, but that dosent really do it for either of us on a regular basis... imfine with just being on top for him, and then switching around Link to comment
urubamba Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 If you usually masturbate with just your hand you may be used to having clit orgasms. A vaginal orgasm from pentration feels quite different so you may have had one and not realised. Getting to orgasm both inside and outside at the same time feels the best. Link to comment
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