kate111 Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 There is not many is there. But thought we could be putting together a list. 1. The weight is just falling off (no diet necessary- instant lack of appetite); 2. Colours seem more vivid and songs deeper; 3. Reflection on life is necessary to make new life. Link to comment
whatsagirltodo Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 more free time spending less money less stress and in turn, better health! (because admit it, if you're just out of a relationship, the events leading up to the breakup were definitly stressful, in my case, it was almost 6 months of stress) ...if i think of anymore I'll post them... Link to comment
Weeblie Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 7. You don't have to dump them, since they already ended things. 8. Good excuse for missing a day of work. 9. Great excuse for pampering yourself. Link to comment
rabbitskin Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Decision was out of your hands- no guilt or time spent worrying if you did the right thing. Can meet and flirt with new people, expand your social life without worrying about a jealous gf/bf. Link to comment
Dako Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Freedom from those minor constraints you were so used to. A blank canvas for your future. Time to read and think. Effortless weight-loss. And my favoritist thing....no more mother-in-law!!! Link to comment
kate111 Posted February 19, 2007 Author Share Posted February 19, 2007 Not having to hang out and be nice to their annoying friends. More time to read. The incentive to get your life together and be successful- if only for revenge. Hey! Revenge is a very motivating force. Knowing you were the one who had the quality of commitment. Link to comment
cristal Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 1) No more waiting for them to call. 2) No more wondering when is the next time that you will see them. 3) No more wondering whether or not they love you. Link to comment
baddasslegend92 Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Knowing that when its all said and done and they realize what they loss, when they try to come back you can tell them you not interested!!!! Link to comment
Locke2121 Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Ok, nobody else is saying so I will, walking around the house nude!!!! Link to comment
baddasslegend92 Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 LOL@loke2121 that is a good 1 Link to comment
cristal Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 No more worrying if you look like hell some days. Link to comment
Cyprian Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 more free time spending less money less stress and in turn, better health! (because admit it, if you're just out of a relationship, the events leading up to the breakup were definitly stressful, in my case, it was almost 6 months of stress) ...if i think of anymore I'll post them... More free time? Thats not a positive aspect...I am freaking LONELY! Spending less money? I have spent so much money on alcohol lately that I could start a liquor store... Less stress? Hah! The events leading up to my breakup were wonderful... Link to comment
baddasslegend92 Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Actually that an excuse to look great!!!Go out and buy new clothes ,work out and look great!!!... Link to comment
Parsley Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 You appreciate being happy more than you ever did before, because it becomes so rare. You discover the people who really do love you with all their hearts. The people who have let me moan on and on and endlessly discuss whatever's happening, and will still offer up help when they sense that I'm feeling down about it aren't the people I thought they'd be. I've only known them since September, but they've proved themselves to be beyond the most amazing friends. Retail Therapy. The satisfication you feel when you realise for the first time that, should they ask for a second chance, you would say no without hesitation or regret. You have the chance to reinvent yourself, or even simply buff up the old you that had become tarnished and battered in the last few months. ENA! Link to comment
This is Horrible Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Actually that an excuse to look great!!!Go out and buy new clothes ,work out and look great!!!... i agree with this. i have been back in the gym on a strict regimine doing about 90 minutes of cardio a day and i feel great. additionally, the money i would have spent on dinners, gas and toll to see her and other girlfriend expenses goes to stuff I want!!!! the best thing you can do i can do is be successful, so if and when i run into her down the road she will always be the one to question why she ended things! Link to comment
whatsagirltodo Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Ok, nobody else is saying so I will, walking around the house nude!!!! well, that relationship wasn't going anywhere to begin with, if you couldn't walk around naked in front of them!!! Link to comment
whatsagirltodo Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 More free time? Thats not a positive aspect...I am freaking LONELY! Spending less money? I have spent so much money on alcohol lately that I could start a liquor store... Less stress? Hah! The events leading up to my breakup were wonderful... Well i was dumped several months ago and those are all the positive experiences i had!!!! Link to comment
kate111 Posted February 19, 2007 Author Share Posted February 19, 2007 I always walked around the house nude when my ex was there. Link to comment
rabbitskin Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Freedom from those minor constraints you were so used to. I totally agree with this. Just think: you can travel the world if you want... marry a hot Brazilian or someone really exotic. Do something you have always wanted to do, but involved taking too much time out of the relationship. Link to comment
Me and myself Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 There's one thing I don't find amusing in a breakup...you don't have anyone to wash your back when bathing. Link to comment
Parsley Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 You can let your legs grow their winter coat! Link to comment
addictedblue Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 have fun hating the person who dumped you Link to comment
Weeblie Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 You can let your legs grow their winter coat! This is not only a time saver, but it's practical, and helps cut down on heating costs.... Link to comment
addictedblue Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 This is not only a time saver, but it's practical, and helps cut down on heating costs.... i agree 100%!! Link to comment
Parsley Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 And you don't use as many razors. It's just fantastic for all concerned really. Then when spring rolls round you don't find any bits you didn't shave, because you can hardly miss it. Link to comment
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