Balistic01 Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 If you got a Valentines ecard from a guy you have been chating to for over four months, would it freak you out? Even thou you get along great and have organised a visit from him for a weekend in the future. I think I've scared a nice girl off. Haven't heared from her since before Valentines day and I usually get an email every two days. Link to comment
Honey_30 Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 as long as you werent declaring your undying love for her or something. if it was just a sweet e-card i think thats nice that you thought of her on valentines day..if it were full of mushy heart pouring stuff then maybe it make her run. Link to comment
Jetta Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 She may have been thinking of you as a friend only and the e-card showed her you were thinking of more. Try e-mailing her once more to see if you can clear things up. Link to comment
Stu147 Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Hi Balistic, I'm not a girl but I thought I'd reply anyway. First of all don't jump to conclusions. Yes it's possible that the card may have freaked her out a little, if she thought that you guys were just friends, but it's equally possible that there's another explanation for her lack of email. Maybe she's sick, or has some other problems going on. Don't jump the gun, get panicky and send some irrational email (not that I'm saying you would, just saying don't). Wait for a week or so and if you haven't heard from her then send an email asking if she is ok and saying that you are concerned about her. If still no response then just hang back and hope she contacts you when she can. Wishing you all the best of luck.... Link to comment
Balistic01 Posted February 19, 2007 Author Share Posted February 19, 2007 Thanks for the advice. The card I did send however was very simple. Just wishing her happy Valentines day and to have an enjoyable one. So maybe she isn't well, not that I'm hoping she is but it will be a relieving reason. Link to comment
quietgrl Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 I send Valentine ecard to all my online male friends last week and i don't see nothing wrong giving those men a ecard.Hey!, I've learned when it come to email, people email you when they email you. Link to comment
blizzardblueeyes Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 I think it was a sweet gesture! Link to comment
desert_rose26 Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 if the girl likes you then she should've replied and been happy about it. Link to comment
Alexis_failure Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Personally I would have found that sweet, but maybe she only sees you as a friend at the moment. Don't panick, she could be having problems ith her internet or computer. Link to comment
TheFoglifter Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 My first question is: do you like her as more than an e-friend? If not, then you might be able to get out of it with an explanation. If so, that complicates matters. I have to agree with the logic that if it wasn't a problem for her, she'd have thanked you immediately. There has to be about a week long allowance for an ill-timed event -- I myself have disappeared from my own forum due to internet going down, but I made an effort to contact other staff. Eventually there comes that point where you accept that she probably got freaked out. Its her loss. Link to comment
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