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A question for the guys...........


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I'm a girl, but I just wanted to say that everyone always has different points of view on this one. Which is what makes it so hard as a girl! You don't want to turn up, first time with your new bf and be the total opposite of what they think is sexy. I know you shouldn't change just for a guy, but I figure that they're the ones down there so if you don't mind you may as well go with what they think!

 

My advice? Throw it into the conversation. I know that sounds weird but if you're planning on sleeping with someone I figure you have established a certain degree of intimacy. (If it's a one night stand then who cares, really?) But seriously, just say 'I was reading this article' or 'My friends and I were talking' and see what he says. He might know what you're hinting at but that's ok. Or, you could just say 'What do you think?'

 

Not sure if this is why you posted this or not, but just thought I'd chuck my 2 cents in anyway

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I would say that groomed would be my minimum preference. Bare is fine, trimmed is fine, as long as it looks well maintained one way or another.

 

If a girl turned up to our first date with her hair, or her clothes, looking like she'd been dragged backwards through a hedge then I would be less than impressed. So why should the state of 'down there' be any different. Of course, if a woman's natural state was quite tidy then there would be no need to do anything with it.

 

These are just my own preferences though. I would also add that a man should equally be well groomed for his partner. It's not all one way.

 

Would the state of a woman's pubic hair make me feel less about her, of course no. If I love her it ain't gonna make a bit of difference!

 

All the best...

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I agree with the majority, in saying that as long as its kept clean and neat. I prefer that a cute lil "landing strip". But everyone has a different opinion. I agree with aymee lee, and try to bring it up casually and see what a prospect would more prefer. Thats my 3 cents thrown in.

 

Brandon

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Please, please, please ..... leave it as whater it was meant to be. One of the most attractive aspects is that you are different than someone else. The process of intimate discovery is most of the aphrodisiac!

 

I don't get this part. Women are all complaining (all my female friends) that men look at them as some kind of plastic barbie doll and they never feel like they measure up to these strange ideals - and then they run headlong with it.

 

There is something offputing about the artificiallity of landing strips - or shaved bald. I can't help feeling that a shaved naked woman looks like some kind of 11 year old - and my libido goes out the window.

 

Women that like themselves the way they are and don't need to make themselves over to some trend make me weak at the knees and far from weak elsewhere - but they seem imposible to find! Don't do it!

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a smooth bare mound is a wonderful place for a face

 

this made me feel sick I am inbetween... I HATE the look of a completely bald woman, I find it disgusting, unfeminine...

But then I dont like it completely au' naturale either

 

Im smooth "underneath" and the triangle is trimmed... it doesnt irritate my bf and I dont look like a child.

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Your bypassing the best way to know what he would like, just ask. Work it into a conversation or if your nervous to try to do it jokingly.

 

I dont know you so I cant know how you may or may not talk about certain situations.

 

But if your uncomfortable asking him, then make up a story about how your girl friend was nervous about it and wanted to know how it should look......then sneakily slip in with a question about how he thinks it should look down in the valley.

 

I personally like it however she likes to make it with the exception of crop circles. By preference though I would have to say I am a 70's porno guy myself lol.

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As long as it isn't some hairy busy then I don't think a guy will mind too much at that point. Do what YOU like best ladies. Trust me if a guy gets far enough with you to the p oint where he can actually see your vagina then I doubt he'll care too much if its bare or natural. (JUST KEEP IT TAME)

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  • 2 weeks later...

Different generation buddy...

 

I love the shaved or heavily trimmed look... and the feel, it rolls much more smoothly on the tongue since I tend to put my tongue everywhere on my way down there just to torture her before I go for the gold

 

 

 

Exactly... If I want pubes in my mouth, then I'll just... actually I don't want them in my mouth so nevermind

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