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I argee with jordan, that you need to make a move and not just play soo casual otherwise she will only see you as a friend. Proably not as bold of a move to kiss her but you should try more touching and getting closer to her on the couch watching tv and watch the signs she puts out. Such as does she comfort the fact your getting closer or move a little away. Thats a good sign to whats going on in her mind. All you have to do is make small moves till you feel comfortable with making a big move. And as you said you should try and make a date such as dinner and movie or such just the two of you. Good luck Brandon

Ohh BTW HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!

Hey fellow Charlottean, It always hurts when an ex makes a nice comment but you need to just let her go completely, it sounds like from your previous post(I read them quickly) but it sounds like she did you wrong and you need to cut her out of your life and move on. I have a lot of built up anger towards my previous g/f and I know if I try to express them it will only seem as if it doesn't effect her. Let her be. Good Luck Brandon

Well it seems like a pretty tough situation. But my opinion is that since X is in a relationship, you shouldn't try to squeeze into that situation. But I would suggest to let it be known to X that you have some feelings/attraction to her but since she has a b/f dont want to act on it, but would like to be friends and hang out(but really mean being just friends b/c if she tries to cheat/leave her current b/f just b/c just putting on too strong then she could do the same to you) Well good luck on it and hopefully this helps! Brandon

Hey I just read your previous posts and understand where you're coming from. I just had a ex g/f of 4 years b-day yesterday and me being the kinda guy I am(always the nice sweet one). I thought about calling or saying something but I know it would upset my current g/f and I didnt want to do that. But I would think about what emotions it could stir up by it. But if you feel its the right thing to do, then go for it but keep it short and sweet. Good luck Brandon

Ohh you have to send the message!!!! He will get a kick out of it either way!!! Let us know how it turns out! Brandon

Well my opinion on the subject is sounds like your a sexual person and dont have a problem showing it and if you with someone who is the same way then I think that would definitely be on my mind for ummm...... the whole day. I am a very sexual and sensual person as well and love to hear cute lustful things when I cant be with my SO. But I also agree that there has to be part lustful at times and part emotional at times as well, otherwise it could be confused with just wanting a physical aspect in a relationship. But Good Luck with everything!!! I Think he will love the message. Brandon

I agree with the majority, in saying that as long as its kept clean and neat. I prefer that a cute lil "landing strip". But everyone has a different opinion. I agree with aymee lee, and try to bring it up casually and see what a prospect would more prefer. Thats my 3 cents thrown in. Brandon

I think the more important part of showing her is that you are willing to work and comprimise to make the relationship successful. I think that is a lot more valuble to show you are willing to give it all you got. Good luck and I hope this helps. Brandon

Hello, well I am happy that you found something that is very interested b/c flowers on v-day aren't cheap at all. But a few ideas I can think of is to do something together that neither of yall have done before. For example, I love active activities such as rock climbing, biking, hiking, and such. So I would look at something both are interested in but havent done ever. It would help both of yall to get to know each other. Good luck with everything and hope this helps. Brandon

Hey man, Its tough to say why she didnt get you any gifts but I look at it and think about it from her side. Yall are in a causal relationship means no commitment and V-day is for celebrating with the one you care about. And she could of been thinking that you werent getting her anything and if she got you something and didnt get anything back in return then she would be devastated, women are a lot more emotional and take more things to heart. I would see if she tries to make it up to you for what you did for her. Good Luck with everything, hopefully this helped. Brandon

Ive been in the same situation, and I hate tryin to bring something up out of nothing. The best way Ive changed that is make a date that neither of yall have done, like never tried japenese or go ice skating or anything. If ur shy then try and teach her something that u know really well. Like I love rock climbing so i took her there on a date. but its up to you and what interests that you like. Well good luck!!! and congrats on finding someone cuz thats the hardest thing. Brandon

I actually have been looking/researching rings for the past 2 weeks and I usually get all the information on subjects before going to buy something very expensive. And i think 5k is very pricey for a ring. i have been looking at spending 1800-2600. My g/f and I when looking for "ideas" and she fell in love w/ a ring thats 2999 and i think is the best one we saw too and i have been hinting that its too expensive but i know i will end up buying that for her because she fell in love w/ it and really i did too. But if your g/f is hinting that a ring is soo materialistic and has too be something that pricey you should really talk to her about it and try and understand it from her view and why she really wants that soo expensive ring which from my info is something like a 8 carat rock and proably something that sparkles accross a football field. well good luck w/ everything. Brandon