Steven1607307306 Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 Okay quick how-to question. I'm not sure if anyone has been in this situation or not, but here it is. Last year this girl from my english class and I hit it off, and had a little fun while her bf was outta town. Now I'm going out with her best friend. I asked my girlfriend if she has ever had a threesome, and she said there was one time when girl X (my ex...) asked if she would come with her and have a threesome with her BF for his b-day. So now I'm trying to get a threesome going and I'd really like girl X to make it happen, since all of us have seen each other naked anyway, wouldn't that be the most comfortable first threesome? Anyways....how do I bring this up to my gf?! Link to comment
Hayles Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 Whoa... You might want to step very carefully here... Rather than you suggesting it to your GF, ask her, "Who would you like to bring in for a 3some?", if you suggest your X, that may make your GF think you still have a thing for her... Let it be your GF's call... make it look like her idea... so you don't break any hearts and cause any insecurities where they're not needed... Link to comment
melrich Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 Anyways....how do I bring this up to my gf?! Very carefully. Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted February 14, 2007 Author Share Posted February 14, 2007 I'm pretty sure she wants one, but I'm not sure if she wants girl X to be there. I'D like it that way, just because they're both smokin' hot. Not to sound to shallow, but it IS a threesome. Link to comment
Hayles Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 Yeah, but that's exactly what you never want GF to hear... Picture this... She asks you for a 3some with her X... Now, how does that make you feel?? Times that by 10, and you've got the female reaction to the situation... hehe, Good luck! Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted February 14, 2007 Author Share Posted February 14, 2007 Yes. but she's already been in a sexual act with my X...so I'm not sure how I would react because I've never had sex with any of her exs... Link to comment
Hayles Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 He he, yeah, but her having sex with you X and you having sex with your X now that you'e with her... may be different! You know her, we don't... all I can say is, good luck... but asking her who she wants might be the safest bet, rather than blurting out you still want to @#%$ your X!!!! Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted February 14, 2007 Author Share Posted February 14, 2007 Haha...good point. I'll just let her pick...maybe add a little, "Hey didn't you tell me you and ... had a threesome once?" Haha. Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 Don't expect her to say yes because she's done it in the past. She could very well not feel like doing it ever again. Link to comment
kr356 Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 if my boyfriend brought up my past threesome experience while trying to get me to do one with him (in the way you are explaining it above), i'd punch him in the face and he would be lucky to get a kiss out of me for a long time so becareful. Link to comment
LostLoveinLosAngeles Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 Why are you even in a relationship if you want to have a threesome with some other person? You might as well be single. Take it from me its not all its cracked up to be especially if you lose the one you care about. But I guess you dont care about your gf anyways. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 Why are you even in a relationship if you want to have a threesome with some other person? You might as well be single. Take it from me its not all its cracked up to be especially if you lose the one you care about. But I guess you dont care about your gf anyways. Just because someone wants to have a threesome doesnt mean they dont care about their partner and that's very wrong to say.. Whats right for one person isn't going to always be right for another. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 Haha...good point. I'll just let her pick...maybe add a little, "Hey didn't you tell me you and ... had a threesome once?" Haha. I'd be very very cautious bringing it up this way as this could bring up a sour point to your gf and her get really hurt by it. I would be fairly uncomfortable if my bf asked me to have a threesome with one of his ex's even if I had slept with her. Just because, well he's my bf and the thought of him with any one else especially infront of me just really doesn't tickle my fancy. But hey, if you're gf is all for it just be careful as sometimes threesomes can come between two people who are ina relationship. I've seen my best friend go through that with her bf they've had a few threesomes and each time she has come away hurt. Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted February 19, 2007 Author Share Posted February 19, 2007 Yeah, thanks everybody for the replies. I decided not to bring it up, but she told me that she wanted to have a three-some but we should wait until we find somebody we feel very comfortable with. And by the way, just because I want a threesome does NOT mean I don't care about her. She is wonderful, and I appreciate the openess we have together. The reason I AM in a relationship with her, is because she is just as open-minded as me. Diffrin' strokes for diffrin' folks, I suppose!:splat: Link to comment
Carl5000 Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Why are you even in a relationship if you want to have a threesome with some other person? You might as well be single. Take it from me its not all its cracked up to be especially if you lose the one you care about. But I guess you dont care about your gf anyways. Valid point, He's only eighteen and he should work his exterior motive brain power to work on this 3 some, just dropping subtle hints etc its really down to u, weighing up the pros and cons. Obviously its probably one of those casual relationships you have in your youth, what are the chances your still be an item in ten years time. You may aswell try and get the most out of the relationships. Link to comment
petey1343608 Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 depending how old is your gf? Link to comment
petey1343608 Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 my gf and i had one...she wanted to....it was all good...but decide how far each of u wanna go Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted February 22, 2007 Author Share Posted February 22, 2007 She's 20. I'm 18. Link to comment
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