Jvc21 Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 - Hey everyone. I need some opinions from all of you. My g/f and I have been going out for a little over 2 years now, and we've done lots of manual masturbation with each other, but she doesn't want to go go near oral stuff because she believes that people will think she will lose her virginity. We're pretty comfortable around each other and everytime i get near her vagina (kiss around it), she loves it so much and it's tempting to go further...but i hold back because i don't want to go against her wishes. So basically, is there a way where i can convince her of a positive oral stimulation session? And a side question; are there any good positions out there for non-pentatrive sex positions? We're not going there yet, but we love grinding with each other. Thanks all in advance. ~Jvc21 Link to comment
finalcloud13 Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 I thought one retains their virginity as long as there is no intercourse. I think you can do everything besides intercourse. I always thought the 69 looked interesting. Or maybe the classic taking turns going down on each other. Link to comment
quietgrl Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 hey Jvc21, Wow,It's been a long time scent i've heard from you.I have a fun idea if your Gf up for some outercourse fun.How about making a chocolate sundae around your gf private area.How about getting some chocolate,whip cream and some cherries and have some food fun.Jvc21,Your girlfriend won't lose her virginity until she has vaginal sex. Link to comment
Jvc21 Posted January 28, 2007 Author Share Posted January 28, 2007 but all her so called 'peers' made her believe that you lose a type of virginity when we have oral sex. So i'm trying to convince otherwise. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 Sex is Sex no matter how you look at it, whether it's oral, regular intercourse, or Anal its sex so her "peers" are correct. If she isn't comfortable with it then there isnt really any means for "convincing" her as she will do it when she is comfortable. Just enjoy the things you two are doing. Link to comment
Jvc21 Posted January 28, 2007 Author Share Posted January 28, 2007 well, i can tell she's comfortable with it, because i've flirted there numerous times, but she thinks it's just flat out wrong to do it before marriage. (perhaps i should have added that part) Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 IF she thinks it is wrong then she isn't comfortable with it, a person who is so adament about it being wrong isn't going to be comfortable doing right now.. Whether she admits it or not or goes along with it just to please you she could still be bothered inside about it being wrong. Obviously you two have talked about it because you know she thinks its wrong well theres nothing you can do to convince her of anything. Link to comment
Jvc21 Posted January 28, 2007 Author Share Posted January 28, 2007 i suppose you're right, perhaps i'll set this aside for another year and see what happens. Anyone care to answer my side question at all? "And a side question; are there any good positions out there for non-pentatrive sex positions? We're not going there yet, but we love grinding with each other." Link to comment
Avocado Rivalry Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 I just wanted to compliment you for respecting her wishes and not trying to pressure her. Respecting a girl is a really important quality to maintain even if at certain stages of your dating life, girls seem to like being ignored and treated poorly... Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 I agree with Avocado, I really respect you for respecting her wishes and not doing as alot of guys would do and pressure her. Once again I commend you for that. Sorry i'm not much help on your side question I just wanted to say that to you. Link to comment
quietgrl Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 I just wanted to compliment you for respecting her wishes and not trying to pressure her. Respecting a girl is a really important quality to maintain even if at certain stages of your dating life, girls seem to like being ignored and treated poorly... I said the same thing to Jvc21 last year and i'm going to say this again.You're a good man.Jvc21 do you have a brother?(LOL) Link to comment
zerohalo Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 "And a side question; are there any good positions out there for non-pentatrive sex positions? We're not going there yet, but we love grinding with each other." Ever hear of hotdogging? Look it up on google. Link to comment
quietgrl Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 Ever hear of hotdogging? Look it up on google. I think we need to add another dry sex postion to the list. Link to comment
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