aggierocker Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 this girl at work flirts with me a lot but she has a boyfriend. this is torture! i like the feeling of her actions tho. what do i do? i really get the feeling she likes me but i think i know her answer if i ask her out. it happened with another girl once before. why does life tease me? Link to comment
Dako Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 Act like an adult, and realize she's just playing with you. Flirt back, but realize she doesn't want to rip off your pants and gnaw on your dangly bits, she's just funning you. Link to comment
crazy300 Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 this girl at work flirts with me a lot but she has a boyfriend. this is torture! i like the feeling of her actions tho. what do i do? i really get the feeling she likes me but i think i know her answer if i ask her out. it happened with another girl once before. why does life tease me? Hey...i know how u feel. My last job, there was this incrediblly gorgeous guy who flirted with me soo much, i was completely in lust with him. I was so sure he liked me. I thought he was the one for me. So i almost asked him out, only to find out that he was engaged to his gf back home. Wat a player. I think i cried that night. Never thought of him since. Link to comment
aggierocker Posted December 10, 2006 Author Share Posted December 10, 2006 hey i cant help that. maybe i should move far away. Link to comment
silentalways Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 hey, for the love of gawd! take a piss out the woman doing the flirting instead of the guy - didn't he say SHE FLIRTS WITH HIM? there's as many whacked female players as male out there - the people that do these things are the majority unfortunately [trust me - i know - lol] i am thinking about inventing a male/female radar device that will beep if u are within 50 feet of such people - i'll make a million bucks! h'yooooooooooo Link to comment
aggierocker Posted December 10, 2006 Author Share Posted December 10, 2006 yes but it feels like shes growing on me more, as in much more close and casual. i may fall hard from this. why cant i ever have even a slight legit relationship with anyone? Link to comment
crazy300 Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 yes but it feels like shes growing on me more, as in much more close and casual. i may fall hard from this. why cant i ever have even a slight legit relationship with anyone? I think you already know what this female is doing, or else you wudnt be posting here. If you want to make the mistake and fall for her, go right ahead. But be warned, there are a lot of players out there, and its so convincing, you just cant believe that they are infact just having their fun at your cost. Link to comment
aggierocker Posted December 10, 2006 Author Share Posted December 10, 2006 i want to go out with her. when shd rode with me she briefly mentioned going out with me and it just poked my skin somemore. i dont want to believe she has a bf. she doesnt mention him much thats good. Link to comment
aggierocker Posted December 10, 2006 Author Share Posted December 10, 2006 i dont want to believe that shes playing with me. i want it to be real. i love the interaction. heck i think she may have a bf only through assumptions from overheard conversation once, and myspace. i know i know... Link to comment
triv Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 Man up already. She's got a boyfriend and chances are she's not going to break up with the guy to be with you. You already sound like you're getting attached. There's definitly some sexual tension and non-verbal flirting going on with a girl I work with that's already got a boyfriend. But, I just have fun with it and we both get to boost our egos. Just use her as practice and avoid any friendzone traps, so if she does break up with her guy she'll know whats up. 1 Link to comment
aggierocker Posted December 11, 2006 Author Share Posted December 11, 2006 ok so i wont ask her out, but continue with this game. thanks Link to comment
aggierocker Posted December 11, 2006 Author Share Posted December 11, 2006 you know what, on second thought, i hate playing this game. its a waste of my emotions and time, knowing it won't go anywhere. i'm TRYING hard to not to get infatuated with her, but shes so sweet to me in a place where i don't really have any friends anymore. boredom kills me, sweetness tortures me. and if i don't flirt back with her like i did today... it hurts, it makes me feel like crap. luckily i was assigned to work the opposite side of the store all day. its making me hate sweet cute little happy couples because that concept seems so far away from me. i don't understand how people get to that point. and here she is with someone, but flirts with me. and no not with words but lots of touching. body langauge speaks louder than words, and that just confuses the crap out of me. i so want to make the move, but i'm scared of setting myself up for the kill. again i'm lost and searching for answers. and oh how i would love a simple approach from a single girl, but no, life has to be complicated for me whether it be her age, relationship status, distance, and drunken love. too much damn work, but i love the feeling i get that i have experienced in the past. i miss those feelings. Link to comment
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