lost_status Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 How do you get rid of an annoying ex?????? Link to comment
Blue Skittles Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 how is he being annoying? You could start by asking him not to contact you anymore. If that doesn't work - change your phone number. Link to comment
lost_status Posted December 9, 2006 Author Share Posted December 9, 2006 well we share the same group of friends unfortunately, we are tying to be friends but I know he wants more, he wont get the idea. He calls me up all the time, at least once a day and then gets all sarcastic with me! Link to comment
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 Tell him your gay Link to comment
lost_status Posted December 9, 2006 Author Share Posted December 9, 2006 I was actually thinking of doing that!!! hahaha but I doubt that would really solve anything. Then everyone will think Im gay and I'l definatly be attracting the wrong type of people. Link to comment
silentalways Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 what u do is file police report after police report until real jail time becomes a reality and he will never bother u again or show up somewhere he is with yer new bf and start kissing the new dude with such passion that works too Link to comment
Blue Skittles Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 Tell him you are seeing someone else. Get call blocking and block his number from your phone so he can't get ahold of you. Link to comment
southerngirl Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 When he calls you, dont answer.... or say your busy... breaking up is hard to do and trying to be friends can be even harder. Link to comment
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 I'l definatly be attracting the wrong type of people. Hahahaha.Always go on about how HOT your new neighbour is or something like that Link to comment
lost_status Posted December 9, 2006 Author Share Posted December 9, 2006 When he calls you, dont answer.... or say your busy... breaking up is hard to do and trying to be friends can be even harder. Ive already tried that, there are only a few times where I pick up, I guess I shouldnt pick up at all. Link to comment
lost_status Posted December 9, 2006 Author Share Posted December 9, 2006 Everyone has good ideas. When we were togther I used to say oh that guy is cute etc, it was my thing, he didnt care, I doubt it will make a difference now. I think I might say Im seeing someone else, but I know the girls in my group will know Im lying and might tell him. any other ideas? Link to comment
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 Yeah just dont pick it up at all.My ex he is now starting to call and text me but i dont answer it and luckly im not there when he does.He'll get the picture soon Link to comment
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 Make up some one from online.By a simcard and text yourself from it pretending to be him just to trick him and the gurls in your group so they cant tell him. Link to comment
lost_status Posted December 9, 2006 Author Share Posted December 9, 2006 Make up some one from online.By a simcard and text yourself from it pretending to be him just to trick him and the gurls in your group so they cant tell him. hahahaha thats a good one!! LOL...Its too much hassle though hehe, Im too lazy! LOL Link to comment
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 Lol yeah hmm well then you could..........ahh im out Link to comment
Juliana Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 Have you told him to stop calling you? Link to comment
lost_status Posted December 9, 2006 Author Share Posted December 9, 2006 Have you told him to stop calling you? yep! I told him awhile ago I wanted time for myself, without him annoying and calling me. Link to comment
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 How long did he wait before calling you again? Link to comment
lost_status Posted December 9, 2006 Author Share Posted December 9, 2006 not long, It was maybe one day or so. Link to comment
Aurian Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 Every time he annoys you go *click* Either he gets the idea that he is annoying you and gives up or he behaves a bit better Either that, or get a two-year-old to babble in the phone when he picks up, give the phone to your half-deaf grandmother (WHAT???), or teach the dog to whimper in the phone (*squeak!*). Link to comment
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 Either that, or get a two-year-old to babble in the phone when he picks up My baby cous does that.hes so cute Link to comment
Juliana Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 One of my best friends has a similar problem. I would suggest not picking up at all. Right now what you're doing is called "intermittent reinforcement." You're basically training him to harass you. His behaviour is working for him, at least part of the time, so he's going to continue doing it. Plus, the calls sound slightly abusive...so the sooner you get quit of him, the better. Link to comment
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