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New_Horizons Proficient

New_Horizons

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Newhorizon,

 

A certain type of woman not dating your penis and you need to learn how to relate to a woman without a penis?

 

*sigh*...this has nothing to do with my penis, this is about my overall relationship experience. Sexual experience is one part of it. Sexual, romantic, emotional, and of course physical, all factor in and one type of experience bolsters confidence with all other types.

 

Besides, I challenge you to name me a woman who considers this experience unimportant. If I had any reasonable chance of meeting such a woman, I would stop worrying about all this.

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I've never had the chance to do it but I'm sure I could do it much better than any physical love. I'm not a bad guy; when I was a teenager I just wanted to make a woman really happy. I would fantasize about that way more often than anything sexual. Seeing that women really aren't interested in 'love of the mind', I've become hardened now. I think a dog would be less judgemental of me.

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forza2 Enthusiast

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*sigh*...this has nothing to do with my penis, this is about my overall relationship experience. Sexual experience is one part of it. Sexual, romantic, emotional, and of course physical, all factor in and one type of experience bolsters confidence with all other types.

 

Besides, I challenge you to name me a woman who considers this experience unimportant. If I had any reasonable chance of meeting such a woman, I would stop worrying about all this.

 

New horzon,

 

First you need to relate to a woman outside of the bedroom before you think a woman doesn't want you sexually.Do you know how to make love to a woman mind?

 

I've never had the chance to do it but I'm sure I could do it much better than any physical love. I'm not a bad guy; when I was a teenager I just wanted to make a woman really happy. I would fantasize about that way more often than anything sexual. Seeing that women really aren't interested in 'love of the mind', I've become hardened now. I think a dog would be less judgemental of me.

 

 

Ms. quietgrl, please do not fill his mind with all you're talking about. He's only 22, and you talk to him like he's 35-36. This guy has feelings and he wants to have sex. A 22 year old guy thinks about sex 95% of the time he thinks. A virgin 22 year old is 100% occupied by thinking of sex. I know it will help him a great deal once he has sex as I've been there. Sex helped me alot. What you're referring to, "Making love to a woman's mind" is for a 30-36 year old guy who has a relationship and is ready to take it to the next level and get married. I'm 22 and I know. I am much more mature than my age and I've been with an older woman she was 30-35 and their view is completely different than my view. They are great at sex. They are the best at sex, but they think out side of the box labled as SEX. You sound like you are in that stage where you found the middle ground and you are enjoying the different aspects of life.

 

Ms. quietgrl, hope there are no hard feelings. If you like we can hang out

 

For Mr. New_Horizons, I prescribe safe sex with a girl, but first you need to go out there and start playing the odds of this thing. You dont wanna be 34-36 and just get out there to the market as you'll end up w/2nd hands. People that age get divorced and you end up with divorced females. You need to go out there. Get rejected, get you heart ripped while you're sober, and build your confidence. There are alotta fishes in the sea but in this case ocean. I know you're in a small city, then prepare to move. Use the excuse of being the new guy in the new city you move to and use it as a pick up line. Get rejected. Try it. Dont be scared of rejection. Drive your car to a strange city where no one knows you and start talking to girls. The more you talk to girls the easier it'll get. Not only for sex, but for your future. That's all you got. Girls. Dont walk to a girl saying that "Hi, I'm a virgin, I'm 22 and I wanna have sex with you". Meet girls. Talk to them. Here's what helped me break outta shell. When I started to talk more to girls who I didn't know, I imagined talking to my friend who I grew up with. It'll comn you down. Talk about the God damn sky. Make a little compliment (one per month per girl) Dont lie. Now I'm looping around this idea. You will get rejected, but first 10 is hard. First 100 is hard. The more you try the better you'll become. I have written a program which logs and graphs my success. My rate of rejection has fell from 80%-67% over a given period of time. Set goals for your self.

 

I will also PM you to make sure you got this.

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Friendly Encourager Newbie

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I sympathize with you Thread. You think of yourself as not being attractive to women. You are worried about your sexual confidence. Stop it now! My advice to you is...don't act desperate!!! Women smell that in a guy and it is a HUGE turn off! Remind yourself of all the good qualities you have to offer...remind yourself of your accomplishments...feel good inside! A woman does not want a cry baby...she wants someone to laugh with, someone to learn from, someone to share thoughts and ideals with, and yes, someone to debate the issues with. Present yourself as a clean, intelligent and happy person, and women will be attracted!

As for the sex...I'm sure you know what your penis likes...but do you know what women like? If you have haven't studied yet...start. And I don't mean porn. I mean...seek out websites or books that talk about sensuality. Be willing to be pleasured by touching the soft skin of a woman's back. Be satisfied with the gentleness of holding hands. Savor the softness of a woman's kiss on your cheek. Women love to be touched softly, gently, slowly. Don't rush sex...the anticipation of sex during the dating period is so exhillerating. And after that, each time you have sex, a little bit of that exhilleration is lost.

Good Luck. You've been patient this long...take a little more time to do it right.

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forza2

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forza2,,

No wonder you relie on sex only.A man over 21 should alway be making love to a woman mind and not relie on his penis.That's the problem with some men.You think sex can solve your problems and you can't relate with the opppsite sex without it.

 

What problems? I dont think Sex can pay my bills, or fix the dent on my car.

 

I still dont know what you mean by "Problems"?

 

What problems?

What problems?

What problems?

What problems?

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forza2 Enthusiast

forza2

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Forza

Yes sex is a part of life and shouldn't be a problem for some virgins but.... Some virgin lose thier virginity before their time because These virgin are using sex so they don't have to deal with other personal issue.

 

Now that makes sense. I agree on that, but sex makes you feel good while you're with some one who you like or just wanna have sex with. I think best thing for a virgin is a F*** buddy No obligations, but act of sex

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