shau_nee Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Do guys ever commit to ladies that they think are hot? or does hot mean they are looking for sex? Link to comment
socks1w Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 No usually they dont commit to girls they think are hot.I spose if a guy is horny he'll say anything to get sex.I believe when a guy tells you ur hot hes lookin at ur body and when he tells you your pretty hes lookin at you like a human being and not a piece of meat,lol.Thats my 10 cents. Link to comment
Sugar-Rush Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Guys who want sex tell you your hot, this is not always a bad thing, the guy may be in love with you or whatever but he wants sex. It's far more intimate when a guy tells you your pretty, thats personal. Sugs xx Link to comment
friscodj Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 If a female friend of mine looks hot, I'll tell her simply because that's what I think is the most appropriate description. I call it like I see it. No sex or desire to have sex with them anywhere in the equation... Link to comment
Anthony M Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 When he calls you beautifull he's in love with you. When he calls you hot it's an infatuation. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Oh.. from my ex's new gf people say she's hot.. already guess whole the time that he likes her body.. they were together before they really met except from the internet. They've been kissing at the first meeting,.. ugh I just want love because I love that person om who he is, not the outside or the fake. And you can't know that over such a short time. How awful.. She looks so mean to me and manipulating . To me he said I'm beautiful Link to comment
southerngirl Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 My husband calls me hot, pretty, beautiful, pain in the a*** Just kidding... Well, I dont think because they say your hot, it means anything in particular. Link to comment
southerngirl Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Well, cant he still find me hot? eh maybe he does want sex.. whodathoutit Link to comment
Yvette84 Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 my boyfriend tells me i'm "so hot" and he's commited to me...so yes! But he also calls me beautiful and pretty and cute and stuff...I do't think it HAS to mean he's using you. If you're doubting his love for you then something is probably wrong, you should always be able to tell if a guy really loves you or is using you. Link to comment
2900 Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 my brother kinda broke it down for me in a scale 10-hot 8-pretty 3-cute 1-monkey...lol... so hot is a 10 monkey is a 1 there were a few others but i cant remember wat they were Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 I dont want to stereotype but im sure some guys mean it that way. In my experience guys will tell a girl that she is hot because he wishes to place her above him as somekind of unattainable goal. It will all depend on the guy so there is no real answer. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Belgian Girl your ex just wants her for sex. He got what he deserves. Don't worry about him, call him, or have contact. Move on and be happy. How do you mean he got what he deserves? Because I didn't 'gave' him seks(altough it was one of my biggest wishes to have that with him)? What I know is that he really want that, beaause I know how much he wanted it with me. But I want to be sure that he wants it because me as a person and I want him to stay.. Feel quite frustrated about the situation love that boy with whole my heart. Link to comment
nicholas_the_great Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 A guy who plans to commit will not say hot. I personally wouldn't even say pretty. My word of choice is 'beautiful.' Link to comment
lost_status Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 I think its just a choice of words. My bf calls me hot, sexy, gorgous, beautiful etc and he was the one to say he doesnt care if we have sex or not, and that he is happy just to be with me. Link to comment
Alezia Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 my brother kinda broke it down for me in a scale 10-hot 8-pretty 3-cute 1-monkey...lol... so hot is a 10 monkey is a 1 there were a few others but i cant remember wat they were Uh-oh my bf calls me hot and calls me a monkey Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 My boyfriend tells/has told me I'm hot, pretty and beautiful many a time at varying stages in our relationship, and he didn't sleep with me for the first 4 months we were together. I'm not sure there's anything in the original theory expressed in this thread. Link to comment
friscodj Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 I'm not sure there's anything in the original theory expressed in this thread. Amen sister...I'm glad someone said it... Link to comment
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 If i doesnt really matter what he says its who said it Say if my Christain friend said i was hot he wouldnt be implying for sex but if some random sleeze said it i think it would be implying sex Link to comment
jazzgirrl Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 I've had guys tell me I'm cute, hot, sexy, bootylicious, etc. It's all good!! Link to comment
Krosis Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 I tell my girlfriend is hot, I also tell her she is beautiful, and gorgeous. She's all of those in my eyes. I do not tell her that she's hot for sex, I simply tell her because, she the greatest looking girl in the Universe to me. Link to comment
Shadow25 Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 ok....it's a word, just like pretty is a word. Personally, I think the word hot is more commonly used now days, because it doesnt send out too many signals. When a guy says a woman is pretty or beautiful, it's usually a forced compliment, the words are longer thats why I think we forget some other words here aswell such as: Sexy Gorgeous amazing Things like that. It all depends on the situation they are said in, I told a friend of mine that she is hot, she's 29 yrs old, friends with the woman I like right now who is 27 with a daughter, and I'm 18 years old...so what If I call her hot or pretty, or beautiful, it's a compliment...it doesnt mean that I want to have sex with her. Of course, if I said that to the 27 yr old I like and we were having a nice conversation on a date and I said she looked really hot, it'd probably come accross as sleezy, I'd probably just say that she looks nice, or "someones dressed to impress" or something like that. Although...I actually have to get to the dating stage yet, lol. So yeah, these are words, it all depends on the situation they are used in, it's also not just guys complimenting women either, women often call guys on their looks. I've been called hot on many occasions (as much as I deny that being true, lol) I've been called cute many times aswell (which is embarrassing, but flattering), I've been called pretty, aswell, and that really made my day, it made me feel so happy (if you take that last one seriously, you need to look up the word sarcasm so it works both ways, but it's taken in different ways. Time for me to go to another post now Link to comment
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