haven't heard from her.... are we broke up then?

[shiminimo]

hi people. i met a girl about a month or so ago. she use to stop by at my place almost everyday and we hung out together alot. the last time i saw her was about a week ago. i tried phoning her and texting her and i don't get any responses. i heard that she lost her job about 3 weks ago and doesn't have any money. i stopped by at her place and her roommate told me i just missed her by about a half an hour. her roommate said she moved out because she couldn't afford to stay. she only moved about 20 min. from where i leave. she never told me goodbye or anything. i don't know wheather to consider us broke up or not. should i wait for her, move on or what?

[NJRon]

Spooky. Someone else had almost an identical situation happen to them... except she was speaking about a guy. Anyway, I think the consensus is you already texted and phoned her. Beyond that, move on. She might be busy looking for a new job or something, or she could be feeling depressed and doesn't feel like seeing you right now. But it doesn't really excuse the lack of response.

[bluegal79]

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

I hate it when people disappear!

 

I would say you try and move on. You already tried to get in touch with her and she didn't respond. That is very immature on her part.

[itsallgrand]

Keep movin'.

 

Either she is gone forever now, or she will reappear on the scene with *sad story *lame excuses *pretending like nothing even happened

 

No matter how you cut it, unless she is dead or in a coma, she is showing she wouldn't be a reliable partner with this stunt.

[DBL]

People come and go for no reasons all the time. You did you part in checking up, now just move on and do what you got to do with you life. Don't count on anybody coming back around.

 

DBL

[Viper62382]

Like everyone else said. Move on. If she really does care for you in any way, she will let you know somehow why she dissappeared. But if she just reapears like everything is ok and nothing happened without explaining or wanting to explain, those are RED flags.

[_Just_a_girl]

Ditto. A week is plenty enough time to get in touch with you. When someone's in to you...they make time. Even if it's a quick call.

 

If she calls you in a month's time... decide then what's best for you.