Jump to content

_Just_a_girl

Members
  • Posts

    41
  • Joined

About _Just_a_girl

  • Birthday 07/01/1970

_Just_a_girl's Achievements

Explorer

Explorer (4/14)

  • First Post
  • Collaborator
  • Conversation Starter
  • Week One Done
  • One Month Later

Recent Badges

1

Reputation

  1. If you like this girl so much, then why would you paste her email here for everyone to see? Think she might not find that an attractive quality. Good luck mate.
  2. You know...how about forget all the pressure of what to call it. You like her and she said yes. And not only did she say yes...but she has been thinking about it and thought of something else you can do together. I'd say that's a good thing. So don't ruin the moment by asking her if she realizes it's a date date. Have fun and let the night flow...sometimes great things happen when you're least expecting it. ...But! let us know how it goes
  3. I don't think though that you have to let her call all the shots. It still has to be give and take. Maybe just don't call as often as you normally do...skip a day. There doesn't have to be a reason why. Maybe she wants to be the one to call sometimes... but if you're the one calling all the time or everyday...then she doesn't really have the chance to. And.. she's got new things going on. I'd say be patient. Even friends have to compromise.
  4. Is it too much? or not enough? I guess it depends on who you ask. It's obviously not too much from your end. You're wanting to. She on the other hand, from what you say, sees it as too much. There must be a reason. We have to start listening to other people's cues and giving them what they need at the time. We can't win people over by ignoring their needs. When people seem to be distancing themselves, it's more important to give them the space than to rack you're brain trying to figure out why. Lots of times it has nothing to do with us, but moreso things they have to figure out for themselves. All you can do is ask.... and accept. Good luck
  5. Dating someone about 2 mths. Both of us having a good time, getting to know each other, slowly meeting each others friends, we do alot together throughout the week and basically everything is terrific. Recently met his kids (10yrs) and have been doing fun things together. And we have a good balance of alone time and time with his kids. Here's where I'm curious... their birthday is coming up in a few weeks and I'm thinking I'll be involved somehow...and I'd really like to give them something for their b-day. My intentions are good, not doing it for brownie points... I pretty much like his kids from what I know so far...and I love birthdays Is it too soon? What's reasonable? Any thoughts?
  6. Sleeves are very hot. Anyone care to share pics of their tats?
  7. Awesome Hoppy... you'll love it. Let us know how it goes.
  8. It is very early to tell. Possibilities are endless. Maybe he assumes you will just forward the pics when you have the chance. Just don't get all caught up in going to that site to see when he last logs on. That will drive you crazy if you see that he still does. Just be patient... enjoy the butterflies
  9. It only has to be 1/4 inch. You have a sheet over you, but you are exposed. People doing waxings see bodies all the time... it's no biggy. ...and a lot less painful than you think
  10. I'm a big fan of waxing! For hoppy... My BF got some waxing done for that same reason...his tats Depends how fast your hair grows, but you are sure to get a good 6 weeks for sure. He did his about 3 mths ago and I notice it growing back now. Sometimes you will get ingrowns...or at least some type of piple. But they go away. LOL.. it hurts... but hey you got tats rights? You can handle it. Don't do it yourself..go get it done. It's perfectly normal for guys to get waxed. You don't have to go to a salon in a mall or anything, there are people who work out of their homes. I have a few friends that make a living doing waxing and pedicures etc... they do guys all the time...it's no biggy.
  11. Thanks RC. I've relaxed about the whole thing since posting. i think I just needed to verbalize it. Much happier i did it here... than getting all "sprung & silly" around him about it. Thanks again
  12. Wow I don't know why I am hooked on this post but I'm curious to see how it plays out. I reading through all the replys and I can hear how anxious Roxy is getting. Girl! relax! He'll call. And when he does, don't get all into how "freaked" you were. And like others have said go and enjoy some things on your own..or with friends in the mean time. So that when he DOES call and asks you how your weekend went...you can tell him all about it.. instead of making up stuff so he doesn't think you jsut stayed home. Happy Sunday everyone! \\
  13. I agree, there's something wrong with this picture. Especially since you EVEN asked if she wants you to back off. She can't have it all...none of us can. But she will if you allow it to happen. I do admire your straightforwardness with her...good communication, nice quality!
  14. I guess I just need to understand that when he gets stressed out to not take it personally and to just leave him alone until he gets "unstressed". thanks for your help guys! Remember saying this in another thread you had? There you go girl
×
×
  • Create New...