Closing eyes during sex

[Karibo]

Do you think it's weird if a guy closes his eyes during sex? Is he imagining someone else or just concentrating?

[Spugly Fuglet]

well to me its a bit odd, he could be shy

[arwen]

No, I find it more weird if the eyes are open all the times. I think it was a saying of the Dalai Lama (not applied to sex though) to never trust someone who hugs or kisses you with his/her eyes open. I think it's normal that the eyes are open at some times, and closed at others. It can mean concentrating, but even more so, if you eliminate sight, one can perceive other senses better (that is probably why I listen to classical music with my eyes closed as well )

 

Why do you think he would be thinking of someone else?

 

Ilse

[PRSOV]

I was under the impression that women liked it when you maintain eye contact during sex, it reveals a deeper connection. Well I read that in a magazine a few months ago.

 

As with kissing, most of the time I do with my eyes closed but sometimes it can be hard to keep them closed. I don't think it is a real big issue.

[helpme2]

I don't know about when a guy does it, but I close my eyes during sex quite a bit, I am not thinking about anything but the moment, just having fun.

[timjd]

Umm girls tend to close their eyes quite often during sex, so maybe its not that sursprising. Having said that, men are more stimulated by the visual sense than women.

At the end of the day, I think it's very unlikely he's fantasizing.

[Scout]

I like some intermittent eye contact.

[Dako]

At classical music performances, many people close their eyes.

No, they aren't bored, they're concentrating. Same can be true during lovemaking.

Sex can be overanalyzed.

[nottoogreen]

We often look in each others eyes - when possible by the position, but once we get off we (or either one) often close our eyes.

 

If I would think about something (like another girl), I would lose my erection.

 

I have to ask my gf in a minute what she thinks about.

[Day_Walker]

it could be a lot of things, even if you ask him you are not guaranteed to get the actual answer. I wouldnt overanalyze this just enjoy it.

[yeawutever]

Maybe it's either his first time or he only done it few times with you, thus being a newbie at it and is very shy about it.

 

[ChickLuver]

Girls close eyes while having sex with guys generally. I feel it's natural as the girls normally don't make eye contacts with guys, penetrating in their bodies. They close eyes sometimes to absorb the pain or sometimes with pleasure.

I don't understand why a guy should close his eyes while having sex, as it is very important to make eye contact with girl which helps in finding out how she is feeling whether she is comfortable or feeling pain, as some Girls don't tell even if the penetration is painful and like to avoid annoying the husband or b/f by telling that.