multiple Orgasms??

[sara_0562]

When my bf goes down on me and after I cum I cant stand him to continue touching, licking or doing anything down there, its just to sensative. Is this normal? Like I was under the impressiong that women are capable of multiple orgasms, one after the other without a time to recuperate. I cant handle more then one, its just to sensative!!! Is there anything to make it not so sensative after the first orgasm?

[melrich]

My partner is exactly the same so there are at least 2 of you that are like this. Can't tell you how "normal" it is but I suspect that lot's of women have the same sensitivity.

[Relationship Coach]

Make it 3 women!

[sara_0562]

ok good to hear i thought i was weird or something! It really sucks tho cause i dont want him to stop but its soooooo sensative! any ways to help this??

[orgasmictofu]

4 women. I'm the same way. My boyfriend will sometimes "torture" me and keep going. I use torture loosely, I freaking love it, and will squirm to get away but he's got his hold and loves to see me move around. (ETA: TMI?

 

To have another orgasm right away, try indirect stimulation. Your body is still on a high after the initial orgasm, try playing around the clit, nipples, kissing, whatever.

[Scotcha]

I'm the same way too. For me another one really would be torture.

[coollady1957]

I guess its probably different for each person. For some it could be too sensitive and for others not.

Fortunately I never had that problem. I will stop there as to not give TMI. Only I will say that multiorgasmic is a blessing.

[tylercdurden2004]

My ex was like this! And I used to toture her to!

[RandomAdvisor]

You can add my GF to the list as #7 then, but who's keeping count?

 

I usually get her off with my hand before we actually start having sex, and once she orgasms she doesn't want me to touch it anymore. That doesn't interfere with us having sex though.

[CarnelianButterfly]

I guess I'm the switch hitter to break up the line up:

 

I can have multiple, but generally they're "shallower" then the really really good ones. The big clawing the sheets ones can leave me very sensitive and sleepy.

[AwdreeHpburn]

Sounds like its MORE normal than you thought.

 

I think you actually may be experiencing multiple ones but may not be aware. As CarnelianButterfly said happens to her, a lot of women have the more shallow ones and then a bigger, final one that leaves them sensitive and... well, done.

[Daddy Bear]

i thought ALL women were that way. my s/o clamps her legs together (as if the auditory signals weren't enough of a clue that she's done) and if i don't react fast enough, my head gets momentarily caught in the vise.

[Dako]

I thought it went along with death and taxes.

[itsallgrand]

That sucks. I don't have that problem. Maybe he's not very good at getting you off? pretty much kidding...

 

I guess you can always keep playing (not that area: way to aggrevate it and ensure less orgasms) until you've recovered?

 

Maybe I'm hearing you correctly. You can only orgasm once a night - no matter the approach?

[orgasmictofu]

Maybe I'm hearing you correctly. You can only orgasm once a night - no matter the approach?

 

You did misunderstand. We're talking about the hyper-sensitivity of the clitoris after orgasm.

[itsallgrand]

Oh ok. I re-read the original post. I guess I kinda assumed she already knew her own body and how it works.

[Daddy Bear]

I guess I kinda assumed she already knew her own body and how it works.

that wasn't very nice but lmao anyway

[dazedandconfusedbydestiny]

make it 4 women

[Daddy Bear]

make it 4 women

i've tried, but i could never get them all together at once.

[dazedandconfusedbydestiny]

lmao thanks needed that laugh.

[Tjane]

Have him try it like super sensitive and soft, like barely touching you, i used to be like that and then realized the next touch has to be delicate and it would happen again, and like i said like hes barely doing anything at all to you, it works for me, maybe for you???

[jman311]

Uhhh ... just to chime in here ... doesn't this happen to guys too? Usually (though not necessarily always) I can't stand any stimulation right afterwards, at least for a short while (say a few minutes).

[Venturer]

Uhhh ... just to chime in here ... doesn't this happen to guys too? Usually (though not necessarily always) I can't stand any stimulation right afterwards, at least for a short while (say a few minutes).

 

Oh yeah, after I come... it gets really sensitive to the touch. So if she continues with the BJ or keeps riding me, I'd think that I'd have a heart attack soon.

[SAMRA2]

guys its totally normal for women to be like that after an orgasm.. yas u can have multiple but only after the first few seconds after the 1st orgasm..not 15 min like guys. giv it a shot./. and its perfectly normal gals!

[Daddy Bear]

Uhhh ... just to chime in here ... doesn't this happen to guys too? Usually (though not necessarily always) I can't stand any stimulation right afterwards, at least for a short while (say a few minutes).

absolutely. ouch! and they wonder why we roll over afterwards and go to sleep.