KandiBabe Posted April 15, 2006 Share Posted April 15, 2006 Heyz guyz, Well my boyfriend (now ex) cheated on me. For the first few weeks I was furious!!! But then I thought about it and well I still really really like him. I sort of don't want to forgive him and stay mad at him but I can't help the way I feel. I might actually.... love him. Its kinda hard for me to say that because I never thought I would feel this way while I was still so young.. I'm only 14!!! But yeah anyways, I'm not sure what to do... forgive him and just forget it ever happened or just ignore him.... please help. Link to comment
robowarrior Posted April 15, 2006 Share Posted April 15, 2006 You dont' want to live together with a LIAR in your life. Even if your in love with him, he's not worth it. You want to have a guy who considers you as his Nr.1, and not as his Nr.2 like you seem to be now. You should forgive him, and you can always cherish your love for him but taking him back? A big NO NO. If you take him back you'll only give him the green signal to cheat on you saying something like ' if you cheat on me , i'll take you back anyway. Link to comment
shyanne Posted April 15, 2006 Share Posted April 15, 2006 cheating at the age of 14.. you should be doing other things at this age not dating. when you say cheating... i really hope you mean hanging out with another girl, like going to movies. 14, you have no idea what love is. your still a child and it's a crush. Link to comment
shyanne Posted April 15, 2006 Share Posted April 15, 2006 You dont' want to live together with a LIAR in your life. Even if your in love with him, he's not worth it. If you take him back you'll only give him the green signal to cheat on you saying something like ' if you cheat on me , i'll take you back anyway. she's 14 and shouldn't even know what a relationship is all about... never mind anything about living together with a liar. Link to comment
KandiBabe Posted April 17, 2006 Author Share Posted April 17, 2006 Thanx for your advice but just because im only 14 doesnt mean im too young. Your acting like im a 3 year old. I do have relationships and I will for ages. My first serious boyfriend was when I was grade 6. Link to comment
AnotherBrokenDoll Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Ok guyz with this one i know both the people here! The guy that cheated knows what he did was wrong! I dont think you could ever forget wat he did kandi babe but you should forgive him. He knows he did wrong but that doesnt excuse what he did but darl i think he actually loves you to! Link to comment
KandiBabe Posted April 25, 2006 Author Share Posted April 25, 2006 Thank for your advice guys. And don't worry, I figured out I didn't love him, I was just so shocked he did it I went all weird and sorta "omg he did that so i must love him cuz im upset" but i don't love him so im fine now. Link to comment
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 dont let a guy walk all over u. stand up and kick his * * * Link to comment
KandiBabe Posted May 14, 2006 Author Share Posted May 14, 2006 dont let a guy walk all over u. stand up and kick his * * * lolz I love you Liza.... take your own advice too babe!!! Link to comment
sad_me Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 I have cheated on my boyfriend and i feel terrible for it, i can't tell him because i know he'll hate me forever, i love him soooooo much and wouldn't even consider the thought of cheating again, his love is so much to me and even if you are 14 it still hurts, any kind of love should be cherished. don't forget that. Its up to you if you want to forgive him and carry on being with him, if you do forgive him then you know how you feel for him. I hope it work out for the best Link to comment
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