ginger25 Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 What do you guys think about sex and being single?! I know everyone is different but was just curious. What if you don't like the idea of casual sex? It might be a while til you meet someone special...surely you just can't wait around until you meet someone. How do you satisfy your sexual appetite?? (besides..u know what!) Seems like an impossible question I know! Link to comment
brando Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 I think casual sex is a beautiful thing. As long as both parties understand exactly what it is. What to do in the mean time other than (you know what), i guess just enjoy yourself until that special person shows up. Cold showers are suppose to help..lol.... Link to comment
venus777 Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 you don't. you get totally sexually frustrated and leap into a relationship with someone who isn't good for you cause you want sex! just kidding. well, mostly kidding, i think that there is some truth to it though.... personally, i can't do casual sex. and i can't do one night stands with people i don't know. and so i'm out of luck.... Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 You climb and claw the walls. Get yourself a good scratching post??? Buy a B.O.B. and an endless supply of batteries. The upside is that you put Bob in a drawer and he doesn't talk back. I was never the type of person for casual sex. Foible perhaps? Thats just the way I am. And flying into relationships.. uggggh I'm gun shy so thats not for me. Link to comment
ginger25 Posted February 4, 2006 Author Share Posted February 4, 2006 I can't do casual either, not that I think there's anything wrong with it, believe me I wish I could! People do still seem to think badly of females who do that aswell, which is really unfair. Sometimes I think I should be out there having this "great sex" that I imagine everyone else is having, when in reality they are probably tucked up in bed reading a book?! Link to comment
brando Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 Sometimes I think I should be out there having this "great sex" that I imagine everyone else is having, when in reality they are probably tucked up in bed reading a book?! Your probably more right than you know on this one. lol Link to comment
shau_nee Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 lol, i just broke up with my bf and I'm already missing sex. but i keep telling myself do not have sex with this ex, no matter if he still looks hot! Link to comment
ginger25 Posted February 4, 2006 Author Share Posted February 4, 2006 I once did that and we both felt terrible afterwards, don't go there! Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 uhhh uhhh.. going back to EX for comfort sex... ohhhh noooo shiiivvveerrrr.... Link to comment
Süsser Tod Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 Well, my hand is always there for me. I've never had a chance to try casual sex. I'm too dumb to relate to females, so casual sex is not an option for me. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 6, 2006 Share Posted February 6, 2006 While we may feel like having sex when we are single, its not a good idea to actually have it. Too many emotions will get in the way and a casual sex or friends with benefits deal is bound to backfire and cause more problems then it is worth. Consider the period of being single as frustration time. Thus when you get in a really serious relationship again, you've got all the pent up sexual energy to be unleashed and the sex can be that much better. And its with someone you love, so you can't beat that. Link to comment
ginger25 Posted February 6, 2006 Author Share Posted February 6, 2006 I think you are right emotions definitely get involved & it can get really messy, I guess some people are just more suited to it that others. And some people are better off with rabbits! Link to comment
ScreenagerX Posted February 6, 2006 Share Posted February 6, 2006 I'm just coming out of an 11 year relationship (well at least I think I am) & quite frankly casual sex scares the bejeezus out of me. How do you do it? By it I mean get back into again. I find I'm the sort of person who has to feel close to them first before jumping in the sack. I guess it'll be no nookie for me for sometime then Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Spader, nice to see you can smile and joke with how you have been feeling. Take your time. When you are coming out of a relationship, I think its best to forget about relationships, dating, and sex for awhile. Just learn to enjoy being with yourself and take the time to get past what's happened before. Eventually, you'll know when you are ready to see someone again, that nervousness may still be there but it won't be scaring you to death. And in the meantime, watch porn.... that is if the computer will allow you to this time. (just joking with you on that one) Link to comment
ScreenagerX Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 And in the meantime, watch porn.... that is if the computer will allow you to this time. (just joking with you on that one) Maybe I'll just stick to DVD's then aye Link to comment
Lion-Guy Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 I think sex is for relationships. I have tried it before and learned that casual sex isn't for me. Link to comment
1824blue Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Casual sex to me is highly over rated, in theory its good, but for me I'd rather just to stock up on batteries and wait until my next actual relationship. No matter how you look at it, sex is a very intimate act and it is hard to separate emotions from it. It is also so much better when there are mutual feelings involved. Link to comment
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