NR498E Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 I was dumped by my gf of 2and1/2 yrs about 4 months ago and i havent talked to her in 3months.I was in love with this girl for about 2yrs before we even got together.ive been in 2 other long term relationships and never new what love really was till i fell for my current ex.i still think about her all day long and i cant help but think she was the one and i blew it.worse yet is i know i will never love like that again.I dont think i believe in true love anymore.I was so sure she was the one.I felt it in the deepest depths of my soul.And evidentaly i was wrong the whole time.how can i trust my self again?let alone women?any advice? Link to comment
Dregnought Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 If it didnt happen, it wasnt ment to be. She was close to the right one, but oversually not close enough. Keep looking. Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 All of your feelings are very normal. There's nothing you can do at this point to accelerate your healing any further. The only way you'll heal completely is if you find someone else you're really interested in or a long time has past. Link to comment
chaos Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 Andy, the same thing happened to me. I was so sure she was the one until she left me for someone else a little over a month ago. I was so sure I'd even bought an engagement ring, my mom was sure, her family was sure... Apparently she's the only one who didn't. Much like you, I can't bring myself to believe that there even is such a thing as the "right one". Maybe all we can do is find someone we get along with and have things in common with and who is willing to commit to the relationship in the same way we are. True love, soul mates... I used to believe in it, but now... I think it's all crap. Link to comment
bsp_kjm Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 True love, soul mates... I used to believe in it, but now... I think it's all crap. ^what he said Link to comment
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