Billster240 Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 OK...here's the deal. I trim downstairs as well as my chest/stomach and was wondering if women enjoyed a guy who took care of himself or if they like massive amounts of body hair....or they simply could care less either way. I think body hair is nasty and I know these days most women completely shave or leave the "landing strip" as they say. I figure most fellas don't want to go searching thru mounds of hair to find the goods.....so why not give women that same treat? I'm an avid gym goer so shaving my arms is another thing I like to do....well....cause I think itlooks nice that way and actually from what I have seen...the ladies like it too. But the few who don't always seem to play the gay card or the newest...."metro" card. Can a guy really not take care of himself, like to be clean-cut, dress nice, ect.....does it really strike that many women as odd? Anyways....my point is....ladies, do you lose your mind and think the husband or SO is a fairy if he decides to trim up down yonder? -Bill Link to comment
RayKay Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 I like a guy who TRIMS - around his pubic area definitely, and what he does after that is up to him. My current partner trims down there (sometimes shaves, but I prefer it trimmed honestly!) and sometimes trims his chest hair too for fun. He keeps everything else...I do like some hair I admit as its manly to me...though he is a cyclist too so if he shaved his legs that would be fine. I have dated swimmers and cyclists who shaved anything from just their legs to their entire bodies (I'm a cyclist so it seemed pretty normal to me!) but it DOES turn some women off I am sure. But really, if a women turned you away for that, maybe she is not right? Most men I know trim the pubic area these days at least, some shave, some don't do anything...but I prefer a trim at least! My brother shaves his arms...and he is gay, but I definitely don't associate that with being gay, if you want to do it..well, go for it. Some might find it odd, but others might not...I don't even know many girls whom do that so some may be a little weirded out at having more body hair then you Link to comment
Tigris Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 I would appreciate you having a trim. I'm sick of getting hairs stuck in my teeth. Thanks for thinking about what a woman needs. Have fun. Link to comment
ang3l2004 Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 I prefer trimmed but that is just me trimmed or shaved is fine but then again I really dont like hair so that is just my choice Link to comment
Billster240 Posted October 18, 2005 Author Share Posted October 18, 2005 Well.....I can see your point in regards to women being creeped out that you have less hair than them, but I'm thankfuly not all that bad. I guess my main issue is with the select few that assume your less of a man because you shave your arms.....again....throwing the gay card. I think another reason I get worked up about this is because my new found love always ribs me about it....and says "if you didn't like me...I'd swear you were gay". Then again she has told me that it's really sexy when my arms are "freshly shaven" so to speak...lol I know I shouldn't really care in the end....just bugs me for whatever reason. -Bill Link to comment
jna35 Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 I like it neatly trimmed so the hairs don't tickle my nose. I don't like it completely shaved off because then it is prickly. As for other hair such as on arms and legs, that doesn't bother me. I guess it's a personal preference, so I say if you like it all shaved off then more power to you! Link to comment
Vert Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Arm and leg hair are extremely normal for men, but it's the amount of chest and back hair that's the deal breaker sometimes. I have both, and while it's not a shag carpet it is indeed noticeable. My previous two gf's have been unphased by it where I thought they'd hate it, and most women actually prefer some hair as it makes you more manly (or so they say). Link to comment
Baby_Blue_Eyes Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 NO back hair or chest hair.. the deal braker for me is the arm pit hair that grosses me out.. But i prefur a guy that trims at least Link to comment
Mythica Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 personally, I wouldn't mind a trim. But as for comp shaven, no. To tell the truth, it looks like a grubworm like that, or a grubworm on steroids. Link to comment
darkblue Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Try shaving back hair. It's impossible. Trimmed below. And the same goes for women. Link to comment
LadyV Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Definitely trimmed. Once came accross a shaved Mr & the prickliness was v strange. Others might like it but i didn't. Body hair is fine but i'm not one for back hair. My ex hated it too & whilst it took ages, plucking it did the trick! Link to comment
Billster240 Posted October 19, 2005 Author Share Posted October 19, 2005 Thanks for the replies all......I don't completely shave down yonder....I do a nice trim, even things out. I don't shave under my arms or my legs, ect.....just arms....and again...trim my chest I guess in the end all is good.....just bothers me when the person I fell in love with (and her to me as well)....always drops the "metro" line and states "I have never been with a guy that shaves his arms"....what's the big fricken deal I tell her. Until you walk in on me with a cack in my mouth (which would never happen by the way)....hush up woman with the gay references...LMAO!!! Thanks again all....you rock!! -Bill Link to comment
marniecw Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 A trim is in order!!!! Nothing better than going down on a guy that takes care of himself!! Link to comment
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